The Daily Dose

A life that leaves a legacy

The God of Israel said, the Rock of Israel spoke to me: ‘He who rules over men must be just, ruling in the fear of God. ~ 2 Samuel 23:3

 What would people say about the way you lived your life if they had to describe it after you were gone? Not your accomplishments, your job title, your bank account, or how many things you managed to squeeze into one day. What would they say about the person you became and the people you helped along the way?

That question comes to mind as we read today’s scripture passage. David is near the end of his life, and this chapter gives us his final words and then introduces us to the mighty men who stood with him through some of his greatest battles. David had experienced incredible victories, terrible failures, celebrations, loss, and everything in between. Now, near the end, we get a glimpse of what mattered to him.

He talks about righteous leadership, God’s covenant, and the men who helped him accomplish what God had called him to do. His story reminds us that our lives aren’t simply about what we accomplish for ourselves. They’re about what God can accomplish through us and the people we influence and care for along the way.

As we look at this chapter, three truths stand out about the kind of life God wants us to live and the kind of legacy we can leave.

Here are three truths to help you remember that you don’t have to be famous, powerful, or standing on a platform to make a difference. Some of the greatest kingdom work happens in ordinary places, through ordinary people who simply say yes to God.

1. Let God shape the way you lead

David’s final words include an important description of the person who leads well. He says that the one who rules over people should do so justly and in the fear of God.

You may not consider yourself a leader, but if you have children, grandchildren, coworkers, friends, neighbors, ministry responsibilities, or even people who simply watch how you live, you’re influencing someone.

Leadership isn’t always standing in front of a crowd. Sometimes it’s sitting across the kitchen table. Sometimes it’s answering a difficult question from your child. Sometimes it’s encouraging someone at church. Sometimes it’s choosing patience when everyone else is losing theirs. People are watching how we live and respond in life.

Begin today:

• Ask God to show you where your influence is greatest right now.
• Before making an important decision, ask, “What would honor God in this situation?”
• Choose integrity when nobody would know if you chose differently.

If you’re leading a ministry team and someone disappoints you, you have an opportunity to respond with grace instead of frustration. If you’re raising children or influencing grandchildren, they may not remember every instruction you gave them, but they will remember how you treated people and how you responded when life didn’t go your way.

You don’t have to be perfect to lead well. Thank goodness, because that would eliminate all of us! You simply need to be willing to let God shape the way you lead.

2. You weren’t designed to do it all alone

One of the most encouraging parts of this chapter is the list of David’s mighty men. These weren’t people who stood on the sidelines cheering while David did everything. They fought with him. They protected him. They stood with him when the odds were against them.

Some of these men performed incredible acts of courage. One man stood in the middle of a field and defended it when everyone else had run away. Another defeated enemies when everyone around him was fleeing. Another stood against overwhelming odds and fought until his hand became stuck to his sword. Now that’s commitment!

David’s victories weren’t accomplished by David alone. God had surrounded him with people who were willing to stand with him.

The same is true for us. God never intended for us to walk through life completely isolated. We need people who will pray with us, encourage us, challenge us, celebrate with us, and occasionally tell us, “You might want to rethink that.”

Start by:

• Identify the people God has placed around you who strengthen your faith.
• Don’t be afraid to ask for help when you’re struggling.
• Look for someone else who needs encouragement and become part of their support system.

Maybe you’re facing a difficult season in your family. Don’t disappear and try to handle everything yourself. Call someone you trust and ask them to pray with you.

Maybe God has given you a ministry assignment that feels bigger than you. Don’t assume that because God gave you the vision, you’re supposed to do every part of it yourself. Ask Him to show you who your “mighty men and women” are.

Sometimes the answer to “How am I going to do this?” is not more strength. It’s more people.

3. Live for something that will outlast you

David’s life was bigger than the battles he fought. His final words point toward God’s faithfulness and the covenant God had made with him. David’s life was not perfect. In fact, there were some chapters he probably wished he could edit out completely. But God still worked mightily through him. That should give all of us hope.

Your legacy isn’t built by having a perfect life. It’s built by consistently choosing God’s way, getting back up when you fall, loving people, and continuing to follow Him. The question isn’t whether you’ll make mistakes, because you will. The question is what you’ll do with them.

Will you allow your failures to become the end of your story, or will you allow God to redeem them and use what you’ve learned to help someone else?

Start today:

• Ask yourself what you want people closest to you to remember about your life.
• Invest intentionally in people instead of only investing in accomplishments.
• Share what God has taught you with the next generation.
• Look for opportunities to encourage someone who is just beginning a journey you’ve already traveled.

Maybe you’ve learned how to trust God through financial difficulty. Tell someone who is struggling. Maybe you’ve learned how to forgive. Encourage someone who is carrying an offense. Maybe you’ve learned to hear God’s voice and follow His direction. Share what you’ve learned with someone who is just beginning to recognize His leading. What you’ve walked through can become someone else’s roadmap. That’s legacy.

When we come to the end of this chapter in 2 Samuel, we’re left with a picture of David surrounded by people who helped him fulfill his assignment. His life reminds us that God can use one surrendered person to influence generations, but He often does it through relationships.

You don’t have to conquer a kingdom to make a difference. You simply need to follow God’s plan today. You need to encourage someone, pray for someone, forgive and take the next step God has placed in front of you, today. Those small acts of obedience can become much bigger than you realize.

Today I want to encourage you to live with your legacy in mind. Ask God to make you the kind of person who brings His goodness into every room you enter. Lead with integrity, surround yourself with people who strengthen your faith, and invest in those coming behind you. Don’t get so focused on what you’re trying to accomplish that you miss the people God has placed right beside you.

The greatest legacy you can leave isn’t a list of things you accomplished. It’s people who know God better because they walked with you. Let God work through your life today. Your story isn’t finished, and there are still people who need what God has placed inside of you.

Today’s scripture reading: 2 Samuel 23

1 Now these are the last words of David. Thus says David the son of Jesse; Thus says the man raised up on high, the anointed of the God of Jacob, and the sweet psalmist of Israel:

2 “The Spirit of the Lord spoke by me, and His word was on my tongue.

3 The God of Israel said, the Rock of Israel spoke to me: ‘He who rules over men must be just, ruling in the fear of God.

4 And he shall be like the light of the morning when the sun rises, A morning without clouds, like the tender grass springing out of the earth, by clear shining after rain.’

5 “Although my house is not so with God, yet He has made with me an everlasting covenant, ordered in all things and secure. For this is all my salvation and all my desire; Will He not make it increase?

6 But the sons of rebellion shall all be as thorns thrust away, because they cannot be taken with hands.

7 But the man who touches them must be armed with iron and the shaft of a spear, and they shall be utterly burned with fire in their place.”

8 These are the names of the mighty men whom David had: Josheb-Basshebeth the Tachmonite, chief among the captains. He was called Adino the Eznite, because he had killed eight hundred men at one time. 

9 And after him was Eleazar the son of Dodo, the Ahohite, one of the three mighty men with David when they defied the Philistines who were gathered there for battle, and the men of Israel had retreated.

10 He arose and attacked the Philistines until his hand was weary, and his hand stuck to the sword. The Lord brought about a great victory that day; and the people returned after him only to plunder. 

11 And after him was Shammah the son of Agee the Hararite. The Philistines had gathered together into a troop where there was a piece of ground full of lentils. So the people fled from the Philistines. 

12 But he stationed himself in the middle of the field, defended it, and killed the Philistines. So the Lord brought about a great victory.

13 Then three of the thirty chief men went down at harvest time and came to David at the cave of Adullam. And the troop of Philistines encamped in the Valley of Rephaim. 

14 David was then in the stronghold, and the garrison of the Philistines was then in Bethlehem. 

15 And David said with longing, “Oh, that someone would give me a drink of the water from the well of Bethlehem, which is by the gate!” 

16 So the three mighty men broke through the camp of the Philistines, drew water from the well of Bethlehem that was by the gate, and took it and brought it to David. Nevertheless he would not drink it, but poured it out to the Lord. 

17 And he said, “Far be it from me, O Lord, that I should do this! Is this not the blood of the men who went in jeopardy of their lives?” Therefore he would not drink it.

These things were done by the three mighty men.

18 Now Abishai the brother of Joab, the son of Zeruiah, was chief of another three. He lifted his spear against three hundred men, killed them, and won a name among these three. 

19 Was he not the most honored of three? Therefore he became their captain. However, he did not attain to the first three.

20 Benaiah was the son of Jehoiada, the son of a valiant man from Kabzeel, who had done many deeds. He had killed two lion-like heroes of Moab. He also had gone down and killed a lion in the midst of a pit on a snowy day. 

21 And he killed an Egyptian, a spectacular man. The Egyptian had a spear in his hand; so he went down to him with a staff, wrested the spear out of the Egyptian’s hand, and killed him with his own spear. 

22 These things Benaiah the son of Jehoiada did, and won a name among three mighty men. 

23 He was more honored than the thirty, but he did not attain to the first three. And David appointed him over his guard.

24 Asahel the brother of Joab was one of the thirty; Elhanan the son of Dodo of Bethlehem, 

25 Shammah the Harodite, Elika the Harodite, 

26 Helez the Paltite, Ira the son of Ikkesh the Tekoite, 

27 Abiezer the Anathothite, Mebunnai the Hushathite, 

28 Zalmon the Ahohite, Maharai the Netophathite, 

29 Heleb the son of Baanah (the Netophathite), Ittai the son of Ribai from Gibeah of the children of Benjamin, 

30 Benaiah a Pirathonite, Hiddai from the brooks of Gaash, 

31 Abi-Albon the Arbathite, Azmaveth the Barhumite, 

32 Eliahba the Shaalbonite (of the sons of Jashen), Jonathan, 

33 Shammah the Hararite, Ahiam the son of Sharar the Hararite, 

34 Eliphelet the son of Ahasbai, the son of the Maachathite, Eliam the son of Ahithophel the Gilonite, 

35 Hezrai the Carmelite, Paarai the Arbite, 

36 Igal the son of Nathan of Zobah, Bani the Gadite, 

37 Zelek the Ammonite, Naharai the Beerothite (armorbearer of Joab the son of Zeruiah), 

38 Ira the Ithrite, Gareb the Ithrite, 

39 and Uriah the Hittite: thirty-seven in all.

Journal:

• What kind of person do I want to become known as?
• Who has God placed in my life that I need to encourage or invest in?
• Where is God asking me to lead with greater integrity and courage?
• Am I trying to accomplish something God gave me without allowing others to help?
• What lesson has God taught me that I could pass on to someone else?
• What is one thing I can do today that could make a lasting difference in someone else’s life?

My Rock in Every Storm

“The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer.” ~ 2 Samuel 22:2

 Have you ever been through a season when you weren’t sure how you were going to make it to the other side? You may have prayed, “God, I know You’re with me,” while another part of you was thinking, “Okay, but could You please explain the plan?” Sometimes faith looks confident on the outside while your questions are doing laps on the inside.

David understood this. By the time we get to the season of life he was in that we read about in today’s scripture reading, he had lived through years of danger, betrayal, battles, rejection, and uncertainty. He had been hunted by Saul, surrounded by enemies, and forced to make decisions that could have cost him his life. Yet when he finally looked back, he didn’t focus on how strong he had been. He focused on how faithful God had been.

David’s song in this chapter gives us three important truths about living as God’s people today. When life gets shaky, we don’t need a stronger version of ourselves. We need to remember who our God is, trust His way, and make Him our place of safety.

Below are three of the truths David discovered through all those difficult years. God wasn’t simply waiting for David to survive his circumstances. He was showing David where his strength really came from.

1. God can be your safe place when life doesn’t feel safe.

David began in this chapter by calling God his rock, fortress, deliverer, shield, stronghold, refuge, and Savior. That’s quite a list! Apparently, David had been through enough trouble to know that one description wasn’t going to cover it.

The beautiful thing is that David wasn’t describing a God who simply watches from a distance. He was sending the message about a God who had personally been his protection through some very difficult circumstances.

We need this reminder today because our world can feel uncertain. News headlines can change before you’ve even finished your morning coffee. Relationships can change. Jobs can change. Finances can change. Our plans can change. Sometimes it seems like the only thing that doesn’t change is the fact that something else is changing!

But God remains steady and our salvation in His Son Jesus, is sure. That doesn’t mean we won’t experience trouble. David certainly did. It means we don’t have to face trouble alone.

• When you’re anxious about something, stop and tell God specifically what you’re afraid of. Don’t just carry the weight around in your head.
• When circumstances are changing, remind yourself of what hasn’t changed. God is still faithful, He is still good, and He is still with you.
• When you don’t know what to do next, make prayer your first response instead of your emergency backup plan.

If you’re facing a difficult conversation with someone you love, don’t spend the entire night rehearsing every possible response. Take it to God first. Ask Him for wisdom, grace, and the right words. Then trust Him to help you walk into the conversation with peace.

2. God’s way is better than your way.

David said in verse 31, “As for God, His way is perfect.” That statement is powerful because David had plenty of opportunities to choose his own way.

There were times when David could have taken matters into his own hands. He could have killed Saul when he had the opportunity. He could have responded to enemies out of anger. He could have tried to force God’s promises to happen on his own timetable.

But David knew that God’s way was worth trusting, even when it wasn’t the easiest way.

That’s a lesson we need today. We often want God’s plan, but preferably with a detailed itinerary, estimated arrival times, and maybe a tracking number. But God rarely give us that. Sometimes He simply says, “Trust Me and take the next step.”

We may not understand why a door closed, why an opportunity hasn’t happened yet, why a relationship changed, or why God seems to be taking us through a longer process than we expected. But not understanding God’s way doesn’t mean God’s way isn’t good.

• Before making a major decision, ask God what the plan is and what He wants to do through the situation instead of asking Him to bless what you’ve already decided.
• When a door closes, don’t immediately assume you’ve failed. Ask God what He may be protecting you from or where He may be leading you next.
• When God’s timing feels slow, resist the temptation to rush ahead simply because you’re tired of waiting.  Don’t move until you have His “Word” on the matter.

Maybe you’ve been praying for a particular opportunity and it hasn’t happened yet. Instead of forcing the door open, ask, “Lord, what do You want me to do today?” Your assignment may not be to make the opportunity happen. It may simply be to prepare yourself for what He is already preparing for you.

3. Remember what God has already brought you through.

One of my favorite things about this chapter is that David is looking backward while praising God. He remembers the trouble, but he also remembers God’s faithfulness through it. There is power in praise and in remembering.

When you’re in the middle of a new battle, it’s easy to forget the victories you’ve already experienced. The problem you’re facing today can suddenly feel like the biggest problem that has ever existed.

But it isn’t the first time God has helped you. Think about it. There were things you once thought you couldn’t survive that you’re now looking back on and saying, “God brought me through that.”

You may not have known how He would do it at the time. You may have cried, prayed, questioned, waited, and probably had a few conversations with God that included, “Lord, I really don’t understand what You’re doing here.” Yet somehow, you made it through. And if God was faithful then, He is faithful now.

• Make a list of times God has answered your prayers or carried you through difficult seasons.
• When fear tries to come, read that list and thank God for His faithfulness.
• Share your testimony with someone who is currently walking through something similar.

For example, if you’re facing a financial challenge today, remember the times God provided for you before. If you’re facing a family struggle, remember the relationships He has helped you through. If you’re waiting for direction, remember the times He led you when you didn’t know where you were going. Your history with God can become fuel for your faith.

David’s song wasn’t simply about what God had done. It was a declaration of who God was in every season. He was David’s rock, his fortress, his deliverer, his shield, his refuge, and his Savior.

That same God is available to us today. He hasn’t changed, and His character hasn’t changed. The world around us may shake, but our foundation doesn’t have to.

Today I want to encourage you to make God your rock in every season. When life feels uncertain, run to Him instead of running to fear. When you don’t understand His plan, trust His character. When you’re tempted to believe that this current problem is bigger than anything you’ve faced before, remember what He has already brought you through.

You don’t have to know everything that’s coming next to know that God will be there when you get there. Take some time today to thank Him for the victories He has already brought you through and surrender the struggles you’re facing right now. Let His faithfulness become bigger in your heart than the circumstances surrounding you. You may not know what tomorrow holds, but you know who holds tomorrow.

Today’s scripture reading: 2 Samuel 22

1 Then David spoke to the Lord the words of this song, on the day when the Lord had delivered him from the hand of all his enemies, and from the hand of Saul. 

2 And he said: “The Lord is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer;

3 The God of my strength, in whom I will trust; My shield and the horn of my salvation, My stronghold and my refuge; My Savior, You save me from violence.

4 I will call upon the Lord, who is worthy to be praised; So shall I be saved from my enemies.

5 “When the waves of death surrounded me, The floods of ungodliness made me afraid.

6 The sorrows of Sheol surrounded me; The snares of death confronted me.

7 In my distress I called upon the Lord, And cried out to my God; He heard my voice from His temple,

And my cry entered His ears.

8 “Then the earth shook and trembled; The foundations of heaven quaked and were shaken, Because He was angry.

9 Smoke went up from His nostrils, And devouring fire from His mouth; Coals were kindled by it.

10 He bowed the heavens also, and came down With darkness under His feet.

11 He rode upon a cherub, and flew; And He was seen upon the wings of the wind.

12 He made darkness canopies around Him, Dark waters and thick clouds of the skies.

13 From the brightness before Him Coals of fire were kindled.

14 “The Lord thundered from heaven, And the Most High uttered His voice.

15 He sent out arrows and scattered them; Lightning bolts, and He vanquished them.

16 Then the channels of the sea were seen, The foundations of the world were uncovered, At the rebuke of the Lord, At the blast of the breath of His nostrils.

17 “He sent from above, He took me, He drew me out of many waters.

18 He delivered me from my strong enemy, From those who hated me; For they were too strong for me.

19 They confronted me in the day of my calamity, But the Lord was my support.

20 He also brought me out into a broad place; He delivered me because He delighted in me.

21 “The Lord rewarded me according to my righteousness; According to the cleanness of my hands He has recompensed me.

22 For I have kept the ways of the Lord, And have not wickedly departed from my God.

23 For all His judgments were before me; And as for His statutes, I did not depart from them.

24 I was also blameless before Him, And I kept myself from my iniquity.

25 Therefore the Lord has recompensed me according to my righteousness, According to my cleanness in His eyes.

26 “With the merciful You will show Yourself merciful; With a blameless man You will show Yourself blameless;

27 With the pure You will show Yourself pure; And with the devious You will show Yourself shrewd.

28 You will save the humble people; But Your eyes are on the haughty, that You may bring them down.

29 “For You are my lamp, O Lord; The Lord shall enlighten my darkness.

30 For by You I can run against a troop; By my God I can leap over a wall.

31 As for God, His way is perfect; The word of the Lord is proven; He is a shield to all who trust in Him.

32 “For who is God, except the Lord? And who is a rock, except our God?

33 God is my strength and power, And He makes my way perfect.

34 He makes my feet like the feet of deer, And sets me on my high places.

35 He teaches my hands to make war, So that my arms can bend a bow of bronze.

36 “You have also given me the shield of Your salvation; Your gentleness has made me great.

37 You enlarged my path under me; So my feet did not slip.

38 “I have pursued my enemies and destroyed them; Neither did I turn back again till they were destroyed.

39 And I have destroyed them and wounded them, So that they could not rise; They have fallen under my feet.

40 For You have armed me with strength for the battle; You have subdued under me those who rose against me.

41 You have also given me the necks of my enemies, So that I destroyed those who hated me.

42 They looked, but there was none to save; Even to the Lord, but He did not answer them.

43 Then I beat them as fine as the dust of the earth; I trod them like dirt in the streets, And I spread them out.

44 “You have also delivered me from the strivings of my people; You have kept me as the head of the nations. A people I have not known shall serve me.

45 The foreigners submit to me; As soon as they hear, they obey me.

46 The foreigners fade away, And come frightened from their hideouts.

47 “The Lord lives! Blessed be my Rock! Let God be exalted, The Rock of my salvation!

48 It is God who avenges me, And subdues the peoples under me;

49 He delivers me from my enemies. You also lift me up above those who rise against me; You have delivered me from the violent man.

50 Therefore I will give thanks to You, O Lord, among the Gentiles, And sing praises to Your name.

51 “He is the tower of salvation to His king, And shows mercy to His anointed, To David and his descendants forevermore.”

Journal:

• What situation in my life feels uncertain or unsafe right now?
• Am I running to God first, or am I trying to figure everything out on my own?
• What has God already brought me through that I need to remember today?
• Is there an area where I’m trying to make my own plan instead of trusting God’s way?
• What is one step I believe God is asking me to take today?
• How can I become more aware of God’s faithfulness in my everyday life?

 Famine to Light

Then David spoke to the LORD, and the LORD answered him. ~ 2 Samuel 21:1

Have you ever had one of those seasons when you couldn’t quite put your finger on what was wrong? Everything seemed to be going along, but something just wasn’t right. You prayed, you pushed through, you tried to fix what you could, and still there was a sense that something needed attention. Sometimes the problem isn’t where we’re looking.

In 2 Samuel 21, David experienced a three year famine. Three years is a long time to wonder, “Lord, what is going on?” David finally went before God, and God revealed that the famine was connected to something that had happened years earlier. Saul had broken an agreement with the Gibeonites and had tried to destroy them. The consequences of that injustice had continued into David’s reign.

This is a difficult chapter because it deals with justice, consequences, and the actions of one generation affecting another. It isn’t an easy passage to read, but there are some important truths we can carry into our own lives today. We don’t want to miss the lessons simply because the circumstances are uncomfortable.

Before we look at these three points, remember this, God is not interested in simply making our lives comfortable. He wants to bring truth into the places that need His attention so He can lead us into what is right and good.

1.Ask God what you may be missing

David didn’t simply accept the famine as something he had to live with. He went to God and asked why it was happening. That was an important step.

Sometimes we spend so much time and energy trying to solve the symptoms that we never stop to ask God what is happening underneath them. We try a new strategy, make another plan, have another conversation, and maybe even buy another organizational notebook, because apparently the right notebook is going to fix everything. David finally went to the One who knew the whole story, which should have been where to start.

There may be situations in your life where you need to stop trying to figure everything out yourself and simply ask God for wisdom. Ask Him to show you how to line up your life with the truth He designed for success in the situation.

Maybe you’ve been struggling with the same conflict in a relationship over and over. Maybe you’ve been frustrated because an opportunity keeps falling apart. Maybe you keep finding yourself in the same unhealthy pattern. Instead of immediately asking, “How do I fix this?” try asking, “Lord, what do You want me to see and how do I get in agreement with Your blessed plan?”

• Set aside a few quiet minutes and ask God to show you anything you need to know.
• Don’t assume every difficult circumstance is God’s punishment. Ask Him for wisdom rather than jumping to conclusions.
• Write down what comes to mind and compare it with Scripture before acting on it.
• Be willing to hear something you weren’t expecting and remember that His blessings are on the other side of your obedience.

Sometimes the answer isn’t comfortable, but knowing the truth is better than wandering around in the dark. 

2.Deal with what God brings to your attention

Once David understood what had happened, he didn’t ignore it. He took action to address the injustice. This is an important part of hearing from God. It’s not enough to ask Him for direction if we’re only willing to follow when the answer is convenient.

There are times when God will put His finger on something in our lives that needs to change. Maybe it’s an attitude, a relationship, a habit, an unresolved offense, or something we’ve justified for far too long.

We can say, “Lord, show me what needs to change,” and then suddenly become very busy when He answers.

I’ve done that before. “Lord, please show me what’s wrong.” Then God shows me, and I’m thinking, “Well, maybe let’s pray about that again.”

God’s correction isn’t meant to shame us. It’s meant to help us move forward and release the blessings that are being blocked by being out of line with His plan.

• If the Holy Spirit brings something to your attention, don’t immediately explain it away.
• If you’ve hurt someone, take responsibility and make things right when possible.
• If you’ve been holding onto an offense, ask God what forgiveness should look like.
• If you’ve recognized a habit that’s pulling you away from God, make a practical plan to change it.
• If you don’t know what to do next, take the next right step you do know to take.

Remember, if it feels hard to take a step, He will strengthen and empower you when you ask for His help to take it.  Obedience often begins with one simple response.

3.Don’t underestimate the impact of your choices

One of the sobering lessons in this chapter is that Saul’s actions affected people beyond his own lifetime. His decision to attack the Gibeonites didn’t simply disappear when his life ended. The consequences continued.

That should make all of us stop and think about the influence our choices have on other people. We may never become kings like David or make decisions that affect an entire nation, but every one of us influences someone. Our children watch us, friends listen to us, people at work observe us and people in our churches experience how we treat them. Even our casual conversations can leave an impression.

That doesn’t mean we should walk around terrified that every imperfect decision is going to ruin someone’s life. We are not that powerful, and thankfully, God is bigger than our mistakes. But it does mean we should take our influence seriously.

Maybe your children are learning how to handle conflict by watching how you handle conflict. Maybe someone at work is watching how you respond when you’re treated unfairly or maybe a younger believer is watching how you handle disappointment. Your life is teaching something, even when you aren’t standing behind a pulpit.

• Ask yourself, “What am I teaching the people closest to me by the way I live?”
• Choose integrity when nobody is watching.
• Apologize when you get it wrong instead of defending yourself.
• Let your children and those around you see you turn to God when life gets difficult.
• Make decisions today that you won’t have to apologize for tomorrow.

The good news is that the story doesn’t end with Saul’s mistakes. David sought God, confronted the problem, and worked toward restoration. That gives us hope because God can bring healing even when we are dealing with consequences from the past.

There is also something else I don’t want us to miss. At the end of this chapter, David’s men continued fighting against the Philistines, and David became exhausted. His men recognized that they couldn’t allow him to continue fighting alone.

That gives us another important picture of God’s people. We aren’t designed to fight every battle by ourselves. There may be times when you’re the one encouraging someone else, and there will be times when you need someone to encourage you. Both are part of walking together as God’s people.

You may be strong in one season and exhausted in another. That’s not failure,that’s life. Even David, the mighty king, eventually needed someone to step in and say, “That’s enough for today.”

Don’t be afraid to tell someone when you’re tired.  Stay connected to people who will encourage you and speak truth into your life. Be willing to step in and help someone else when you see they’re struggling. Don’t confuse being faithful with doing everything yourself. Most of all, ask God who He has placed around you for this season to help and encourage.

2 Samuel 21 reminds us that God sees what we can’t see. He knows the whole story, including the things that happened before we arrived on the scene. He cares about justice, He cares about restoration, and He cares about the condition of our hearts.

We don’t have to understand everything before we trust Him. We simply need to be willing to ask, listen, obey, and keep moving forward.

Today I want to encourage you to bring the confusing places of your life before God. If something doesn’t make sense, ask Him for wisdom. If He shows you something that needs to change, don’t run from it. If you’ve made mistakes, own them and allow Him to lead you toward restoration and if you’re tired from carrying the battle, don’t be ashamed to let someone help you.

You don’t have to have every answer today. You just need to stay close to the One who does. God sees the whole picture when we can only see one room of the house. He knows what’s behind every door, understands every circumstance, and knows exactly what needs to happen next. Trust His voice, follow His direction, and remember that His grace is greater than anything in your past.

Today’s Scripture Reading: 2 Samuel 21

1 Now there was a famine in the days of David for three years, year after year; and David inquired of the Lord. And the Lord answered, “It is because of Saul and his bloodthirsty house, because he killed the Gibeonites.” 

2 So the king called the Gibeonites and spoke to them. Now the Gibeonites were not of the children of Israel, but of the remnant of the Amorites; the children of Israel had sworn protection to them, but Saul had sought to kill them in his zeal for the children of Israel and Judah.

3 Therefore David said to the Gibeonites, “What shall I do for you? And with what shall I make atonement, that you may bless the inheritance of the Lord?”

4 And the Gibeonites said to him, “We will have no silver or gold from Saul or from his house, nor shall you kill any man in Israel for us.”

So he said, “Whatever you say, I will do for you.”

5 Then they answered the king, “As for the man who consumed us and plotted against us, that we should be destroyed from remaining in any of the territories of Israel, 

6 let seven men of his descendants be delivered to us, and we will hang them before the Lord in Gibeah of Saul, whom the Lord chose.” And the king said, “I will give them.”

7 But the king spared Mephibosheth the son of Jonathan, the son of Saul, because of the Lord’s oath that was between them, between David and Jonathan the son of Saul. 

8 So the king took Armoni and Mephibosheth, the two sons of Rizpah the daughter of Aiah, whom she bore to Saul, and the five sons of Michal the daughter of Saul, whom she brought up for Adriel the son of Barzillai the Meholathite;

9 and he delivered them into the hands of the Gibeonites, and they hanged them on the hill before the Lord. So they fell, all seven together, and were put to death in the days of harvest, in the first days, in the beginning of barley harvest.

10 Now Rizpah the daughter of Aiah took sackcloth and spread it for herself on the rock, from the beginning of harvest until the late rains poured on them from heaven. And she did not allow the birds of the air to rest on them by day nor the beasts of the field by night.

11 And David was told what Rizpah the daughter of Aiah, the concubine of Saul, had done. 

12 Then David went and took the bones of Saul, and the bones of Jonathan his son, from the men of Jabesh Gilead who had stolen them from the street of Beth Shan, where the Philistines had hung them up, after the Philistines had struck down Saul in Gilboa. 

13 So he brought up the bones of Saul and the bones of Jonathan his son from there; and they gathered the bones of those who had been hanged. 

14 They buried the bones of Saul and Jonathan his son in the country of Benjamin in Zelah, in the tomb of Kish his father. So they performed all that the king commanded. And after that God heeded the prayer for the land.

Philistine Giants Destroyed

15 When the Philistines were at war again with Israel, David and his servants with him went down and fought against the Philistines; and David grew faint. 

16 Then Ishbi-Benob, who was one of the sons of the giant, the weight of whose bronze spear was three hundred shekels, who was bearing a new sword, thought he could kill David. 

17 But Abishai the son of Zeruiah came to his aid, and struck the Philistine and killed him. Then the men of David swore to him, saying, “You shall go out no more with us to battle, lest you quench the lamp of Israel.”

18 Now it happened afterward that there was again a battle with the Philistines at Gob. Then Sibbechai the Hushathite killed Saph, who was one of the sons of the giant. 

19 Again there was war at Gob with the Philistines, where Elhanan the son of Jaare-Oregim the Bethlehemite killed the brother of Goliath the Gittite, the shaft of whose spear was like a weaver’s beam.

20 Yet again there was war at Gath, where there was a man of great stature, who had six fingers on each hand and six toes on each foot, twenty-four in number; and he also was born to the giant. 

21 So when he defied Israel, Jonathan the son of Shimea, David’s brother, killed him.

22 These four were born to the giant in Gath, and fell by the hand of David and by the hand of his servants.

Journal:

• Is there an area of my life where I’ve been trying to fix the symptoms instead of asking God what He wants me to see?
• Is there something God has been bringing to my attention that I’ve been avoiding?
• What choices am I making today that could influence the people around me?
• Is there someone God may be asking me to encourage or help right now?
• Where am I tired or overwhelmed, and who could I invite to walk alongside me?
• What is one step of obedience I can take today?

He knows

 ^{He answered and said to them, “It is one of the twelve, who dips with Me in the dish. ~ Mark 14:20}

Have you ever seen someone try to hide something from someone who already knew? Maybe it was a child hiding a cookie behind their back while chocolate was still all over their face. We smile because we know the hiding isn’t fooling anyone. Sometimes we do the same thing with God. We convince ourselves that if we don’t talk about something, maybe it isn’t really an issue. But God already knows. He doesn’t know so He can condemn us. He knows so He can set us free.

If we’re honest, most of us can identify something in our lives that the Holy Spirit has gently been talking to us about. Maybe it’s an unhealthy habit, an attitude, a relationship that’s pulling us away from God, an unforgiveness we’ve been carrying, or something we’ve simply refused to surrender. It may not seem like a major issue, but if the Holy Spirit keeps putting His finger on it, there’s a reason.

Recently, I finally surrendered one such area in my own life. It wasn’t something that people would consider a big deal, but it was something I was quietly holding onto and not surrendering to the Lord. I found myself having all kinds of internal conversations trying to convince myself that it wasn’t a big deal. I had every reason ready to defend it.

Finally, I lifted my hands and said, “Okay, Lord. You win.” What surprised me was realizing that God wasn’t trying to take something good away from me. He was trying to make room for something even better.

That’s the heart of our Father. He doesn’t ask us to surrender things because He’s controlling. He asks because He loves us. He sees what we cannot see, and He knows what is keeping us from experiencing His very best.

In today’s passage, Jesus was sharing the Passover meal with His disciples when He announced that one of them would betray Him. The disciples were stunned. One by one they asked, “Is it I?” But Jesus already knew. Judas may have thought he was keeping his plans hidden, but nothing escapes the eyes of God.

In another Gospel account, Jesus tells Judas, “What you do, do quickly.” It almost sounds as though Jesus is giving permission, but that wasn’t the case. Jesus wasn’t dependent on Judas to fulfill God’s plan. The cross was always God’s plan. Judas simply chose to become part of the wrong side of the story.

That reminds me of an important truth. God never needs our disobedience to accomplish His purposes, but He delights in using our obedience. The beautiful thing is that while Jesus knew Judas would betray Him, He also knew Peter would deny Him. One ran away from grace. The other ran back to it. The difference wasn’t what they had done. The difference was what they did next.

Here are a few practical ways to respond when God puts His finger on an area of your lives.

• Be honest with God. Stop trying to justify what the Holy Spirit is already talking to you about. He already knows, and He still loves you. Begin your prayer by simply saying, “Lord, show me anything that’s keeping me from walking fully with You.”
• Surrender one area at a time. Don’t become overwhelmed trying to fix everything at once. Ask God what one area He wants you to release today, then trust Him enough to let it go.
• Believe God’s plans are better than your own. Every time God asks us to surrender something, He is making room for something greater. His goal isn’t to take away our joy. His goal is to increase it.
• Respond quickly to conviction. The longer we argue with the Holy Spirit, the easier it becomes to ignore His voice. Obedience becomes much easier when we respond the first time He speaks.

I’ve noticed that the Holy Spirit is amazingly patient. He doesn’t usually shout. He gently whispers, nudges, and lovingly reminds us. Looking back, every time I’ve finally surrendered something He had been speaking to me about, I’ve wondered why I waited so long. On the other side of surrender, I’ve always found greater freedom, greater peace, greater joy and the breakthrough that my disobedience had been holding back.

I’ve also noticed that I’m a pretty good lawyer when I’m arguing my own case. I can come up with reasons why something isn’t really that bad, why I’ll deal with it later, or why it’s different for me. Then the Holy Spirit quietly speaks one simple sentence, and suddenly all my carefully prepared arguments disappear. Thankfully, He doesn’t win the argument to prove He’s right. He wins it so He can lead me into something better.

Today I want to encourage you to stop hiding from the God who already knows everything about you. Open every room of your heart to Him and invite Him to search every corner. Whatever He’s asking you to surrender today is not because He’s trying to take something away from you. He’s preparing you for something greater. Trust His love, respond quickly to His voice, and remove every obstacle that stands between you and His best. The God who knows your deepest secrets is also the God who loves you the most. As you surrender every area of your life to Him, you’ll discover that His plans are always better, His peace is always deeper, and His blessings are always worth trusting.

Today’s scripture reading: Mark 14:12-21

12 Now on the first day of Unleavened Bread, when they killed the Passover lamb, His disciples said to Him, “Where do You want us to go and prepare, that You may eat the Passover?”

13 And He sent out two of His disciples and said to them, “Go into the city, and a man will meet you carrying a pitcher of water; follow him. 

14 Wherever he goes in, say to the master of the house, ‘The Teacher says, “Where is the guest room in which I may eat the Passover with My disciples?” ’ 

15 Then he will show you a large upper room, furnished and prepared; there make ready for us.”

16So His disciples went out, and came into the city, and found it just as He had said to them; and they prepared the Passover.

17 In the evening He came with the twelve. 

18 Now as they sat and ate, Jesus said, “Assuredly, I say to you, one of you who eats with Me will betray Me.”

19 And they began to be sorrowful, and to say to Him one by one, “Is it I?” And another said, “Is it I?”

20He answered and said to them, “It is one of the twelve, who dips with Me in the dish. 

21 The Son of Man indeed goes just as it is written of Him, but woe to that man by whom the Son of Man is betrayed! It would have been good for that man if he had never been born.”

Journal Questions:

• Is there an area of my life that the Holy Spirit has been gently asking me to surrender?
• Have I been making excuses instead of responding in obedience?
• What fear is keeping me from fully trusting God with every part of my life?
• How has God blessed me in the past when I surrendered something to Him?
• What is one practical step I can take today to remove a roadblock between me and God’s best?

Point Break

_{Then Judas Iscariot, one of the twelve, went to the chief priests to betray Him to them. ~ Mark 14:10}

Have you ever had one of those days when you thought, “If one more thing goes wrong, I might just lose it?” The coffee spills, the phone won’t stop ringing, someone disappoints you, your schedule falls apart, and then the dog decides today is the perfect day to eat your favorite shoe. Most of us have experienced moments when life seems to pile on all at once. The real question isn’t whether we’ll face pressure. The question is, where will we run when we reach our breaking point?

In today’s reading, Mark places two very different people side by side. First, there is a woman who pours out an expensive flask of fragrant oil on Jesus. It was probably the most valuable possession she owned, yet she gladly gave it because of her love and devotion to Him. While others criticized her, Jesus defended her. He said her act of worship would be remembered wherever the Gospel was preached.

Then, immediately afterward, we read about Judas. The contrast couldn’t be greater. One person surrendered everything to Jesus. The other walked away from Him.

I don’t believe Judas’ betrayal happened overnight. Long before he betrayed Jesus with a kiss, he had allowed other things to take root in his heart. Scripture tells us he had been stealing from the ministry’s money bag. Greed had quietly become more important than his relationship with the Lord.

Then came the moment that seems to push him over the edge. As he watched the woman pour out what he considered a waste of money, something inside of him snapped. Instead of softening his heart toward Jesus, he hardened it even more. He left that gathering and went directly to the chief priests to negotiate Jesus’ betrayal.

It makes me wonder. Was it really about the money? Or had Judas slowly allowed disappointment, offense, selfish ambition, and unbelief to build until he finally reached his breaking point? Most people don’t make life changing decisions in a single moment. They make them one compromise at a time.

The same is true for us. When pressure builds, whatever has been growing inside our hearts will eventually come out.

Here are three points we can take away from this passage.

1. Guard your heart before you reach your breaking point. Breaking points don’t usually begin during a crisis. They begin long before the crisis arrives. Small offenses, disappointments, jealousy, or unconfessed sin can quietly grow if we don’t bring them to the Lord. Spend time with God every day, allowing Him to search your heart before those things take root.

2. Run to Jesus, not away from Him. Judas experienced overwhelming guilt after his betrayal, but instead of running to Jesus, he ran away from Him. Peter also failed Jesus, but Peter ran back to the Lord and was restored. When you fail, don’t allow shame to convince you that God no longer wants you. His grace is always available to those who turn back to Him.

3. Build healthy habits before the storm comes. Develop a lifestyle of prayer, worship, and time in God’s Word while life is going well. Surround yourself with mature believers who will encourage you and speak truth into your life. The habits you build in peaceful seasons will strengthen you when difficult seasons arrive.

One of the things I’ve seen in life is that no one plans to drift away from God. It usually begins with small decisions that seem insignificant at the time. A missed quiet time here, an offense left unresolved there, a little compromise that doesn’t seem like a big deal. Before long, the heart begins moving farther from the One who loves us most.

I’ve also discovered that the best time to strengthen my relationship with God isn’t when I’m already in a crisis. It’s before the crisis ever comes. It’s a lot like charging your phone. Most of us don’t wait until it completely dies before plugging it in. Somehow, we convince ourselves that one percent battery is plenty until it suddenly isn’t! Our spiritual lives work much the same way. Daily time with God keeps our hearts full long before we reach empty.

The beautiful difference between Judas and Peter wasn’t that one failed and the other didn’t. They both failed. The difference was where they ran afterward. Peter ran toward Jesus. Judas ran away from Him. That choice made all the difference.

Today I want to encourage you to decide now where you will run when life becomes overwhelming. Don’t wait until you’re standing at your breaking point to determine your response. Build your life on a daily relationship with Jesus. Bring Him your disappointments, your questions, your fears, and even your failures. Stay close to His Word, surround yourself with people who will strengthen your faith, and never allow shame to keep you from His presence. Whatever you’re facing today, Jesus is still the safest place to run. His grace is greater than your greatest failure, His peace is stronger than your deepest struggle, and His love is always waiting to welcome you home.

Today’s scripture reading: Mark 14:1-11

1 After two days it was the Passover and the Feast of Unleavened Bread. And the chief priests and the scribes sought how they might take Him by trickery and put Him to death. 

2 But they said, “Not during the feast, lest there be an uproar of the people.”

3 And being in Bethany at the house of Simon the leper, as He sat at the table, a woman came having an alabaster flask of very costly oil of spikenard. Then she broke the flask and poured it on His head. 

4 But there were some who were indignant among themselves, and said, “Why was this fragrant oil wasted? 

5 For it might have been sold for more than three hundred denarii and given to the poor.” And they criticized her sharply.

6 But Jesus said, “Let her alone. Why do you trouble her? She has done a good work for Me. 

7 For you have the poor with you always, and whenever you wish you may do them good; but Me you do not have always. 

8 She has done what she could. She has come beforehand to anoint My body for burial. 

9 Assuredly, I say to you, wherever this gospel is preached in the whole world, what this woman has done will also be told as a memorial to her.”

10 Then Judas Iscariot, one of the twelve, went to the chief priests to betray Him to them. 

11 And when they heard it, they were glad, and promised to give him money. So he sought how he might conveniently betray Him.

 Journal:

• What situations or pressures tend to push me toward my breaking point?
• Are there any small offenses or disappointments that I’ve allowed to remain in my heart?
• When I fail, do I naturally run toward Jesus or away from Him?
• What daily habits am I building now that will strengthen me during difficult seasons?
• Who are the people in my life that encourage me to stay close to God when life becomes challenging?

Division

And there happened to be there a rebel, whose name was Sheba the son of Bichri, a Benjamite. And he blew a trumpet, and said: “We have no share in David, Nor do we have inheritance in the son of Jesse; Every man to his tents, O Israel!” ~ 2 Samuel 20:1

 Have you ever been in a room where one person says something that changes the entire atmosphere? Maybe everything was going well until someone made one comment, and suddenly everybody had an opinion. It’s amazing how quickly one voice can stir up an entire crowd.

We’ve all seen it happen. One comment in a group chat can turn into twenty responses before you’ve even finished reading the first message. One rumor at work can spread faster than the truth. One offended person can convince everyone else that they should be offended too.

Today’s scripture reading begins with exactly that kind of division. Sheba stood up, sounded the trumpet, and called Israel to turn against David. What began with one man’s rebellion quickly created division throughout the kingdom. It reminds us that voices matter. What we say can bring people together, or it can pull them apart.

As God’s people, we’re called to be careful about which voices we listen to and what kind of voice we become. This chapter gives us three important lessons about guarding our hearts, handling conflict wisely, and recognizing that sometimes one courageous voice can bring peace where another creates chaos.

Below are 3 truths from today’s passage to consider:

1. Be careful which voices you allow to influence you.

Sheba didn’t have to convince everyone individually. He simply spoke loudly enough to stir something that was already unsettled in their hearts. Not every loud voice deserves a place in your life.

We live surrounded by opinions. Social media, podcasts, news, friends, coworkers, family members, and even our own thoughts are constantly telling us what we should think, feel, and do. If we’re not careful, we’ll start following the loudest voice instead of listening for God’s voice.

Maybe someone is constantly criticizing your church, your family, your job, or another person you know. At first, you may not think much about it, but eventually their negativity begins affecting how you see the situation.

Before you accept someone’s opinion as truth, take it to God’s Word. Ask, “Is this what God says, or is this simply what someone feels?” You don’t have to attend every argument you’re invited to.

2. Don’t allow offense to become an invitation to division.

The beginning of this chapter reveals that there was already tension among the people. Sheba found an opportunity to take that tension and turn it into rebellion.

Offense works the same way today. One hurt feeling can quickly turn into resentment and then turn to bitterness. Bitterness can cause isolation and before long, you’re building an entire case against someone who may not even know you’re upset. If you’re honest, sometimes you’ve had conversations with people in your head that never actually happened. You answered questions they never asked, won arguments they didn’t know they were having, and walked away feeling exhausted from a conversation that existed entirely in your imagination.

When you’re hurt, take the situation to God before taking it to everyone else. If a conversation needs to happen, have it with the person involved. If forgiveness is needed, ask God for the grace to give it. If a boundary is necessary, establish it with wisdom. Don’t let an offense become a doorway for division.

3. God can use one wise voice to stop what many voices started.

One of the most powerful moments in this chapter comes from an unnamed wise woman in the city of Abel. Joab’s army had surrounded the city because Sheba had taken refuge there. Instead of allowing destruction to continue, this woman approached Joab and spoke with wisdom.

She recognized what was happening and acted. Her courage and wisdom ultimately saved the city. She didn’t have a title. She wasn’t introduced as a famous leader. We don’t even know her name. But she understood that someone needed to speak up.

That should encourage us. You don’t have to have a platform to make a difference. Maybe you’re the person in your family who can bring peace to a difficult conversation. Maybe you can stop gossip in its tracks by refusing to participate. Maybe you can encourage someone who is struggling instead of joining the criticism. Maybe you can speak truth gently when everyone else is reacting emotionally. Never underestimate what God can do through one person who is willing to use wisdom and courage.

This passage reminds us that division often begins with a voice, but peace can begin with one too. We can’t control every voice around us, but we can choose which voices we listen to, what we allow into our hearts, and what comes out of our own mouths.

As followers of Christ, our words should carry something different. They should bring truth without cruelty, correction without condemnation, and courage without pride. We don’t have to be the loudest voice in the room. Sometimes the most powerful thing we can do is quietly speak what is right and then let God handle the outcome.

Today I want to encourage you to guard your heart and your ears. Pay attention to the voices you’re allowing to shape your thoughts, especially when you’re tired, hurt, or frustrated. Don’t let someone else’s offense become your offense, and don’t allow a difficult situation to turn you into a person who adds to the division. Ask God to make you a voice of wisdom, peace, truth, and encouragement. You may never know how much your words matter to someone else, but God does. When you choose to listen to Him and speak from a heart surrendered to Him, your voice can become part of the healing instead of part of the hurt.

Today’s scripture reading: 2 Samuel 20

1 And there happened to be there a rebel, whose name was Sheba the son of Bichri, a Benjamite. And he blew a trumpet, and said: “We have no share in David, Nor do we have inheritance in the son of Jesse; Every man to his tents, O Israel!”

2 So every man of Israel deserted David, and followed Sheba the son of Bichri. But the men of Judah, from the Jordan as far as Jerusalem, remained loyal to their king.

3 Now David came to his house at Jerusalem. And the king took the ten women, his concubines whom he had left to keep the house, and put them in seclusion and supported them, but did not go in to them. So they were shut up to the day of their death, living in widowhood.

4 And the king said to Amasa, “Assemble the men of Judah for me within three days, and be present here yourself.” 

5 So Amasa went to assemble the men of Judah. But he delayed longer than the set time which David had appointed him. 

6 And David said to Abishai, “Now Sheba the son of Bichri will do us more harm than Absalom. Take your lord’s servants and pursue him, lest he find for himself fortified cities, and escape us.” 

7 So Joab’s men, with the Cherethites, the Pelethites, and all the mighty men, went out after him. And they went out of Jerusalem to pursue Sheba the son of Bichri. 

8 When they were at the large stone which is in Gibeon, Amasa came before them. Now Joab was dressed in battle armor; on it was a belt with a sword fastened in its sheath at his hips; and as he was going forward, it fell out. 

9 Then Joab said to Amasa, “Are you in health, my brother?” And Joab took Amasa by the beard with his right hand to kiss him. 

10 But Amasa did not notice the sword that was in Joab’s hand. And he struck him with it in the stomach, and his entrails poured out on the ground; and he did not strike him again. Thus he died.

Then Joab and Abishai his brother pursued Sheba the son of Bichri. 

11 Meanwhile one of Joab’s men stood near Amasa, and said, “Whoever favors Joab and whoever is for David—follow Joab!” 

12 But Amasa wallowed in his blood in the middle of the highway. And when the man saw that all the people stood still, he moved Amasa from the highway to the field and threw a garment over him, when he saw that everyone who came upon him halted. 

13 When he was removed from the highway, all the people went on after Joab to pursue Sheba the son of Bichri.

14 And he went through all the tribes of Israel to Abel and Beth Maachah and all the Berites. So they were gathered together and also went after Sheba. 

15 Then they came and besieged him in Abel of Beth Maachah; and they cast up a siege mound against the city, and it stood by the rampart. And all the people who were with Joab battered the wall to throw it down.

16 Then a wise woman cried out from the city, “Hear, hear! Please say to Joab, ‘Come nearby, that I may speak with you.’ ” 

17 When he had come near to her, the woman said, “Are you Joab?”

He answered, “I am.” Then she said to him, “Hear the words of your maidservant.” And he answered, “I am listening.”

18 So she spoke, saying, “They used to talk in former times, saying, ‘They shall surely seek guidance at Abel,’ and so they would end disputes. 

19 I am among the peaceable and faithful in Israel. You seek to destroy a city and a mother in Israel. Why would you swallow up the inheritance of the Lord?”

20 And Joab answered and said, “Far be it, far be it from me, that I should swallow up or destroy! 

21 That is not so. But a man from the mountains of Ephraim, Sheba the son of Bichri by name, has raised his hand against the king, against David. Deliver him only, and I will depart from the city.”

So the woman said to Joab, “Watch, his head will be thrown to you over the wall.” 

22 Then the woman in her wisdom went to all the people. And they cut off the head of Sheba the son of Bichri, and threw it out to Joab. Then he blew a trumpet, and they withdrew from the city, every man to his tent. So Joab returned to the king at Jerusalem.

23And Joab was over all the army of Israel; Benaiah the son of Jehoiada was over the Cherethites and the Pelethites; 

24 Adoram was in charge of revenue; Jehoshaphat the son of Ahilud was recorder; 

25 Sheva was scribe; Zadok and Abiathar were the priests; 26and Ira the Jairite was a chief minister under David.

Journal:

• What voices have been influencing my thoughts and attitudes lately? Are they drawing me closer to God or pulling me away from Him?
• Is there an offense I’ve allowed to grow into resentment or division?
• Have I been participating in conversations that God may be asking me to step away from?
• Is there a situation where God may be asking me to speak with wisdom and courage?
• What is one way I can intentionally use my words this week to bring peace and encouragement to someone else?

Hope for Tomorrow

 But Absalom, whom we anointed over us, has died in battle. Now therefore, why do you say nothing about bringing back the king?” ~ 2 Samuel 19:10

 Have you ever been so focused on what went wrong that you almost missed what God was doing next? Maybe you replayed a conversation in your mind seventeen times, wondering what you should have said differently. Or perhaps you’ve spent so much time thinking about yesterday that you didn’t notice God opening a door for tomorrow. Sometimes we can stare so long at the rearview mirror that we forget we’re still driving.

Today’s scripture reading is a chapter about coming back. David had experienced devastating loss, deep grief, betrayal, and conflict. Now his people were calling him back to Jerusalem and restoring him as king. But returning wasn’t as simple as walking through the city gates. There were relationships to repair, people to forgive, difficult conversations to have, and decisions to make. David’s story reminds us that when God gives us another opportunity, we need wisdom to know how to move forward.

Here are three truths about leaving yesterday in God’s hands, extending grace, and faithfully stepping into the next thing He has for us.

1. Don’t let yesterday keep you from stepping into tomorrow.

David had every reason to stay away. His own son had rebelled against him, his kingdom had been divided, and his heart was broken. Yet God was bringing him back.

There are seasons when you’ve been hurt so deeply that moving forward feels almost impossible. You may have experienced betrayal, disappointment, rejection, or a failure you’d rather forget. Sometimes we convince ourselves that staying guarded will keep us from ever being hurt again. But God doesn’t call us to live in yesterday. He gives us strength for today and hope for tomorrow.

Maybe you’ve been hesitant to try again because something didn’t work the first time. Maybe you stepped into ministry and were disappointed. Maybe a relationship ended painfully, and now you’re afraid to trust again. Maybe you made a mistake and you’ve allowed it to become part of your identity.

Your past can teach you, but it doesn’t have to define you. Ask God what your next faithful step looks like. It may be small. It may simply be saying yes to an opportunity you’ve been afraid to pursue or opening your heart to a new relationship. You don’t have to have the entire road mapped out. You just need to be willing to take the next step and ask Him for help to accomplish it.

2. Grace gives people room to come back.

One of the most beautiful moments in this chapter is David’s response toward people who had previously opposed him. Shimei had cursed David when he was fleeing Jerusalem, yet when David returned, Shimei came to meet him and asked for forgiveness.

David could have used his position to punish him. Instead, he chose mercy. That doesn’t mean David ignored what happened. It means he chose not to allow someone else’s worst moment to determine their entire future.

We need this kind of grace today. People make mistakes. They say things they shouldn’t say. They disappoint us. Sometimes they hurt us deeply. And yes, there are times when boundaries are necessary. Forgiveness doesn’t mean pretending something didn’t happen or putting yourself back into an unhealthy situation.

But forgiveness does mean refusing to let bitterness become the boss of your heart. Maybe someone has apologized to you, but you’re still holding their past over their head. Ask God to help you know what forgiveness looks like in that situation. Perhaps you need to release an offense, have an honest conversation, or simply stop rehearsing what happened every time their name comes up. Grace doesn’t erase wisdom. It allows wisdom and mercy to work together.

3. Don’t compare your assignment with someone else’s.

At the end of the chapter, David encounters Barzillai, an older man who had faithfully supported him during his difficult season. David wanted to bless him and bring him to Jerusalem, but Barzillai recognized that his season of life called for something different. He knew what he could and couldn’t do. That’s wisdom.

We live in a world where it’s so very easy to compare our lives with everyone else’s. Social media can make it seem like everyone is traveling, succeeding, building businesses, raising perfect families, and drinking coffee in beautifully decorated kitchens while we’re standing in the kitchen wondering why the dishwasher is making that noise again.

But God hasn’t called you to someone else’s assignment. Maybe someone else’s ministry looks bigger than yours. Maybe another person’s career seems to be moving faster. Maybe you’re watching someone receive the opportunity you’ve been praying about for years.

Don’t allow comparison to make you question God’s plan for your life. Ask Him, “What are You asking me to do in this season?” Then be faithful with that.

David’s return to Jerusalem wasn’t the end of his challenges, but it was a new beginning. God was restoring what had been broken and giving David another opportunity to lead. The same God who helped David navigate betrayal, grief, conflict, and uncertainty was still with him as he stepped into what came next. And don’t forget, He’s with you too.

Today I want to encourage you not to let what happened yesterday determine what you believe God can do today and tomorrow. You may have experienced things you never expected, relationships may have changed, plans may have fallen apart, and you may still carry some questions that don’t have answers. But God is not finished writing your story. Let Him heal what needs healing, forgive what needs releasing, and give you courage for the next step. You don’t have to rush into tomorrow, but you don’t have to be afraid of it either. When God says it’s time to move forward, trust Him enough to take the step. There is still purpose ahead of you, and the best part is that you don’t have to walk into it alone.

Today’s scripture reading: 2 Samuel 19

1 And Joab was told, “Behold, the king is weeping and mourning for Absalom.” 

2 So the victory that day was turned into mourning for all the people. For the people heard it said that day, “The king is grieved for his son.” 

3 And the people stole back into the city that day, as people who are ashamed steal away when they flee in battle. 

4 But the king covered his face, and the king cried out with a loud voice, “O my son Absalom! O Absalom, my son, my son!”

5 Then Joab came into the house to the king, and said, “Today you have disgraced all your servants who today have saved your life, the lives of your sons and daughters, the lives of your wives and the lives of your concubines, 

6 in that you love your enemies and hate your friends. For you have declared today that you regard neither princes nor servants; for today I perceive that if Absalom had lived and all of us had died today, then it would have pleased you well. 

7 Now therefore, arise, go out and speak comfort to your servants. For I swear by the Lord, if you do not go out, not one will stay with you this night. And that will be worse for you than all the evil that has befallen you from your youth until now.” 

8 Then the king arose and sat in the gate. And they told all the people, saying, “There is the king, sitting in the gate.” So all the people came before the king.

For everyone of Israel had fled to his tent.

9 Now all the people were in a dispute throughout all the tribes of Israel, saying, “The king saved us from the hand of our enemies, he delivered us from the hand of the Philistines, and now he has fled from the land because of Absalom. 

10 But Absalom, whom we anointed over us, has died in battle. Now therefore, why do you say nothing about bringing back the king?”

11 So King David sent to Zadok and Abiathar the priests, saying, “Speak to the elders of Judah, saying, ‘Why are you the last to bring the king back to his house, since the words of all Israel have come to the king, to his very house? 

12 You are my brethren, you are my bone and my flesh. Why then are you the last to bring back the king?’ 

13 And say to Amasa, ‘Are you not my bone and my flesh? God do so to me, and more also, if you are not commander of the army before me continually in place of Joab.’” 

14 So he swayed the hearts of all the men of Judah, just as the heart of one man, so that they sent this word to the king: “Return, you and all your servants!”

15 Then the king returned and came to the Jordan. And Judah came to Gilgal, to go to meet the king, to escort the king across the Jordan. 

16 And Shimei the son of Gera, a Benjamite, who was from Bahurim, hurried and came down with the men of Judah to meet King David. 

17 There were a thousand men of Benjamin with him, and Ziba the servant of the house of Saul, and his fifteen sons and his twenty servants with him; and they went over the Jordan before the king. 

18 Then a ferryboat went across to carry over the king’s household, and to do what he thought good.

Now Shimei the son of Gera fell down before the king when he had crossed the Jordan. 

19 Then he said to the king, “Do not let my lord impute iniquity to me, or remember what wrong your servant did on the day that my lord the king left Jerusalem, that the king should take it to heart. 

20 For I, your servant, know that I have sinned. Therefore here I am, the first to come today of all the house of Joseph to go down to meet my lord the king.”

21 But Abishai the son of Zeruiah answered and said, “Shall not Shimei be put to death for this, because he cursed the Lord’s anointed?”

22 And David said, “What have I to do with you, you sons of Zeruiah, that you should be adversaries to me today? Shall any man be put to death today in Israel? For do I not know that today I am king over Israel?” 

23 Therefore the king said to Shimei, “You shall not die.” And the king swore to him.

David and Mephibosheth Meet

24 Now Mephibosheth the son of Saul came down to meet the king. And he had not cared for his feet, nor trimmed his mustache, nor washed his clothes, from the day the king departed until the day he returned in peace. 

25 So it was, when he had come to Jerusalem to meet the king, that the king said to him, “Why did you not go with me, Mephibosheth?”

26 And he answered, “My lord, O king, my servant deceived me. For your servant said, ‘I will saddle a donkey for myself, that I may ride on it and go to the king,’ because your servant is lame. 

27 And he has slandered your servant to my lord the king, but my lord the king is like the angel of God. Therefore do what is good in your eyes. 

28 For all my father’s house were but dead men before my lord the king. Yet you set your servant among those who eat at your own table. Therefore what right have I still to cry out anymore to the king?”

29 So the king said to him, “Why do you speak anymore of your matters? I have said, ‘You and Ziba divide the land.’ ”

30 Then Mephibosheth said to the king, “Rather, let him take it all, inasmuch as my lord the king has come back in peace to his own house.”

31 And Barzillai the Gileadite came down from Rogelim and went across the Jordan with the king, to escort him across the Jordan. 

32 Now Barzillai was a very aged man, eighty years old. And he had provided the king with supplies while he stayed at Mahanaim, for he was a very rich man. 

33 And the king said to Barzillai, “Come across with me, and I will provide for you while you are with me in Jerusalem.”

34 But Barzillai said to the king, “How long have I to live, that I should go up with the king to Jerusalem? 

35 I am today eighty years old. Can I discern between the good and bad? Can your servant taste what I eat or what I drink? Can I hear any longer the voice of singing men and singing women? Why then should your servant be a further burden to my lord the king? 

36 Your servant will go a little way across the Jordan with the king. And why should the king repay me with such a reward? 

37 Please let your servant turn back again, that I may die in my own city, near the grave of my father and mother. But here is your servant Chimham; let him cross over with my lord the king, and do for him what seems good to you.”

38 And the king answered, “Chimham shall cross over with me, and I will do for him what seems good to you. Now whatever you request of me, I will do for you.” 

39 Then all the people went over the Jordan. And when the king had crossed over, the king kissed Barzillai and blessed him, and he returned to his own place.

40 Now the king went on to Gilgal, and Chimham went on with him. And all the people of Judah escorted the king, and also half the people of Israel. 

41 Just then all the men of Israel came to the king, and said to the king, “Why have our brethren, the men of Judah, stolen you away and brought the king, his household, and all David’s men with him across the Jordan?”

42 So all the men of Judah answered the men of Israel, “Because the king is a close relative of ours. Why then are you angry over this matter? Have we ever eaten at the king’s expense? Or has he given us any gift?”

43 And the men of Israel answered the men of Judah, and said, “We have ten shares in the king; therefore we also have more right to David than you. Why then do you despise us—were we not the first to advise bringing back our king?” Yet the words of the men of Judah were fiercer than the words of the men of Israel.

Journal:

• Is there something from my past that I’ve allowed to keep me from moving forward?
• Is there someone I need to forgive or extend grace toward? What would that look like in a healthy and wise way?
• Where have I been comparing my life, calling, or progress with someone else’s?
• What do I believe God may be asking me to do in this season?
• What is one small step I can take this week toward the next thing God has for me?

Torn between Victory and Loss

 _{Then the king was deeply moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept. ~ 2 Samuel 18:33}

Have you ever experienced a moment when life handed you two completely opposite emotions at the same time? Maybe you celebrated a promotion while grieving the loss of someone you loved. Perhaps your child reached a major milestone, yet you wished someone who was no longer here could have seen it. Life has a way of mixing joy and sorrow into the same day.  There are just some days in life when you don’t quite know whether to smile or cry.

Today’s scripture reading is one of those chapters. David’s army experienced victory, but David’s heart experienced unimaginable loss. His son Absalom, who had rebelled against him, was killed in battle. Although the kingdom was preserved, David mourned the death of his son. This chapter reminds us that following God doesn’t mean we’ll never experience heartbreak, but it does assure us that we’ll never have to walk through it alone.

Here are three truths that can strengthen our hearts when life feels complicated:

1. You can trust God even when your emotions are overwhelming.

David loved his son, even though Absalom had betrayed him. His grief was real, and he didn’t pretend otherwise. Sometimes we think faith means hiding our emotions. We smile at church, say we’re doing fine, and quietly carry heavy burdens. But throughout Scripture, we see people bringing their honest feelings before God.

Maybe you’re grieving a broken relationship, facing uncertainty about your future, or carrying disappointment that no one else sees. God isn’t intimidated by your emotions. He welcomes you to bring every fear, every question, and every tear into His presence. Faith isn’t pretending everything is okay. Faith is believing God is still good when life isn’t.

2. Don’t let painful seasons cause you to lose sight of God’s faithfulness.

David’s victory was overshadowed by his grief. Joab eventually reminded him that while his sorrow was understandable, there were people who had faithfully stood beside him and needed his encouragement. Pain has a way of narrowing our focus. When we’re hurting, it’s easy to miss the ways God is still working around us.

Maybe you’ve been so focused on one unanswered prayer that you’ve overlooked the many prayers God has already answered. Perhaps one closed door has caused you to forget the doors He has faithfully opened. Take time to thank God for His faithfulness, even while you’re waiting for healing in another area of your life. Thankfulness doesn’t erase pain, but it helps us remember that God is still present in the middle of it.

3. Let God’s purpose carry you forward.

David couldn’t stay in the place of mourning forever. The people needed their king, and God’s purpose for David’s life wasn’t finished. There are seasons when we need to grieve, and that’s healthy. But there also comes a time when God gently says, “Take the next step.”

That next step may simply be getting out of bed, making the phone call you’ve been avoiding, returning to church, serving someone else, or opening your Bible again after a difficult season. You don’t have to have everything figured out before moving forward. God leads us one step at a time, giving us enough grace for today instead of the entire journey.

This passage reminds us that life isn’t always simple. There will be seasons when our hearts rejoice over one blessing while grieving another loss. Yet through it all, God remains faithful. He walks beside us in our victories, comforts us in our sorrow, and gives us strength to continue fulfilling His purpose.

Today I want to encourage you to bring every emotion to the Lord without fear or hesitation. He knows your heart better than anyone else, and He cares deeply about every burden you carry. Don’t allow disappointment or grief to convince you that God has stopped working. Even when you can’t see the full picture, He is still leading you with wisdom, surrounding you with His love, and preparing you for what lies ahead. Hold on to Him, take the next faithful step, and trust that He will carry you through every season with grace.

Today’s scripture reading: 2 Samuel 18

1 And David numbered the people who were with him, and set captains of thousands and captains of hundreds over them. 

2 Then David sent out one third of the people under the hand of Joab, one third under the hand of Abishai the son of Zeruiah, Joab’s brother, and one third under the hand of Ittai the Gittite. And the king said to the people, “I also will surely go out with you myself.”

3 But the people answered, “You shall not go out! For if we flee away, they will not care about us; nor if half of us die, will they care about us. But you are worth ten thousand of us now. For you are now more help to us in the city.”

4 Then the king said to them, “Whatever seems best to you I will do.” So the king stood beside the gate, and all the people went out by hundreds and by thousands. 

5 Now the king had commanded Joab, Abishai, and Ittai, saying, “Deal gently for my sake with the young man Absalom.” And all the people heard when the king gave all the captains orders concerning Absalom.

6 So the people went out into the field of battle against Israel. And the battle was in the woods of Ephraim. 

7 The people of Israel were overthrown there before the servants of David, and a great slaughter of twenty thousand took place there that day. 

8 For the battle there was scattered over the face of the whole countryside, and the woods devoured more people that day than the sword devoured.

9 Then Absalom met the servants of David. Absalom rode on a mule. The mule went under the thick boughs of a great terebinth tree, and his head caught in the terebinth; so he was left hanging between heaven and earth. And the mule which was under him went on. 

10 Now a certain man saw it and told Joab, and said, “I just saw Absalom hanging in a terebinth tree!”

11 So Joab said to the man who told him, “You just saw him! And why did you not strike him there to the ground? I would have given you ten shekels of silver and a belt.”

12 But the man said to Joab, “Though I were to receive a thousand shekels of silver in my hand, I would not raise my hand against the king’s son. For in our hearing the king commanded you and Abishai and Ittai, saying, ‘Beware lest anyone touch the young man Absalom!’ 

13 Otherwise I would have dealt falsely against my own life. For there is nothing hidden from the king, and you yourself would have set yourself against me.”

14  Then Joab said, “I cannot linger with you.” And he took three spears in his hand and thrust them through Absalom’s heart, while he was still alive in the midst of the terebinth tree. 

15 And ten young men who bore Joab’s armor surrounded Absalom, and struck and killed him.

16 So Joab blew the trumpet, and the people returned from pursuing Israel. For Joab held back the people. 

17 And they took Absalom and cast him into a large pit in the woods, and laid a very large heap of stones over him. Then all Israel fled, everyone to his tent.

18 Now Absalom in his lifetime had taken and set up a pillar for himself, which is in the King’s Valley. For he said, “I have no son to keep my name in remembrance.” He called the pillar after his own name. And to this day it is called Absalom’s Monument.

David Hears of Absalom’s Death

19 Then Ahimaaz the son of Zadok said, “Let me run now and take the news to the king, how the Lord has avenged him of his enemies.”

20 And Joab said to him, “You shall not take the news this day, for you shall take the news another day. But today you shall take no news, because the king’s son is dead.” 

21 Then Joab said to the Cushite, “Go, tell the king what you have seen.” So the Cushite bowed himself to Joab and ran.

22 And Ahimaaz the son of Zadok said again to Joab, “But whatever happens, please let me also run after the Cushite.”

So Joab said, “Why will you run, my son, since you have no news ready?”

23 “But whatever happens,” he said, “let me run.”

So he said to him, “Run.” Then Ahimaaz ran by way of the plain, and outran the Cushite.

24 Now David was sitting between the two gates. And the watchman went up to the roof over the gate, to the wall, lifted his eyes and looked, and there was a man, running alone. 

25 Then the watchman cried out and told the king. And the king said, “If he is alone, there is news in his mouth.” And he came rapidly and drew near.

26 Then the watchman saw another man running, and the watchman called to the gatekeeper and said, “There is another man, running alone!” And the king said, “He also brings news.”

27 So the watchman said, “I think the running of the first is like the running of Ahimaaz the son of Zadok.”

And the king said, “He is a good man, and comes with good news.”

28 So Ahimaaz called out and said to the king, “All is well!” Then he bowed down with his face to the earth before the king, and said, “Blessed be the Lord your God, who has delivered up the men who raised their hand against my lord the king!”

29 The king said, “Is the young man Absalom safe?”

Ahimaaz answered, “When Joab sent the king’s servant and me your servant, I saw a great tumult, but I did not know what it was about.”

30 And the king said, “Turn aside and stand here.” So he turned aside and stood still.

31 Just then the Cushite came, and the Cushite said, “There is good news, my lord the king! For the Lord has avenged you this day of all those who rose against you.”

32 And the king said to the Cushite, “Is the young man Absalom safe?”

So the Cushite answered, “May the enemies of my lord the king, and all who rise against you to do harm, be like that young man!”

David’s Mourning for Absalom

33 Then the king was deeply moved, and went up to the chamber over the gate, and wept. And as he went, he said thus: “O my son Absalom—my son, my son Absalom—if only I had died in your place! O Absalom my son, my son!”

Journal:

• Is there a situation where I’ve been carrying grief or disappointment without bringing it honestly before God?
• What blessings or signs of God’s faithfulness can I thank Him for today, even in the middle of a difficult season?
• What is one small step of faith God may be asking me to take as I continue moving forward?

God’s got your back

 So, Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Archite is better than the advice of Ahithophel.” For the Lord had purposed to defeat the good advice of Ahithophel, to the intent that the Lord might bring disaster on Absalom. ~ 2 Samuel 17:14

 Have you ever wondered how many times God has protected you without you even knowing it? We thank Him for the prayers He answered, the doors He opened, and the blessings we can clearly see. But what about the accidents that never happened, the bad decisions you never made, or the conversations you were never invited into? Sometimes God’s greatest miracles are the ones we never realize He did because He stopped the enemy before we ever knew there was a battle.

That is exactly what happened in today’s reading. David had no idea that while he was fleeing for his life, God was already fighting for him behind the scenes. Ahithophel gave brilliant military advice that would have almost guaranteed David’s defeat. Yet God intervened. He caused Absalom to reject the better plan and follow Hushai’s counsel instead. It wasn’t because Hushai’s strategy was superior. It was because God had already decided David would be protected. The enemy thought he had the upper hand, but God quietly reminded everyone who was really in charge.

If God protected David that way, He is still able to protect His people today. Here are three reminders that show that God’s got your back still today.

1. God Is Fighting Battles You Can’t See

David didn’t know what conversations were happening in Absalom’s camp. He wasn’t trying to manipulate people or control the outcome. While David rested in God’s care, the Lord was already turning the enemy’s plans upside down.

You can also trust God even when you don’t know what’s happening behind the scenes. Maybe you’re waiting to hear about a job, praying over one of your children, or asking God to restore a relationship. It may feel like nothing is happening, but God may already be working in places you cannot see. He can change hearts, redirect decisions, and arrange circumstances in ways no human being ever could. Just because you don’t see God moving doesn’t mean He has stopped working.

2. God Can Turn the Enemy’s Best Plan Into His Biggest Defeat

Ahithophel’s advice was excellent. Humanly speaking, it should have worked. But no strategy is greater than God’s purpose. The very plan designed to destroy David became the beginning of Absalom’s downfall. The enemy may have a plan, but God always has the final word.

Stop giving so much attention to what the enemy is doing and start thanking God for what He is able to do. Maybe fear keeps reminding you of everything that could go wrong. Instead of rehearsing worst case scenarios, begin thanking God for His protection, His wisdom, and His faithfulness. Fear grows when we feed it. Faith grows when we feed on God’s promises in His word. The enemy may think he’s winning, but God has already written the last chapter.

3. God Uses Ordinary People to Accomplish Extraordinary Things

Hushai, Jonathan, Ahimaaz, a courageous woman with a well, and friends who brought food to David all played important roles in God’s plan. None of them were sitting on a throne, but God worked through every one of them. Sometimes the greatest victories come through simple acts of obedience.

Don’t underestimate the importance of what God has asked you to do today. Your encouragement may strengthen someone who is ready to give up. Your prayer may help someone keep believing. Your act of kindness may remind someone that God sees them. You don’t have to stand on a stage to make an eternal difference. God has a wonderful way of turning ordinary people into Kingdom difference makers.

I’ve seen this in my own life more times than I can count. There have been situations where I thought I had to figure everything out myself, only to discover later that God had already gone ahead of me. He put the right people in my path, closed doors that would have taken me in the wrong direction, and opened opportunities I never could have created on my own. Looking back, I can clearly see His fingerprints on circumstances that seemed completely ordinary at the time. What I thought was coincidence was actually God’s protection and provision all along. He truly had my back, even when I didn’t realize I needed protecting.

Today I want to encourage you to trust that God’s got your back. You may not see everything He is doing today, but He is faithfully working on your behalf. Don’t become discouraged when life feels uncertain or when the enemy seems to have a plan. God is greater than every obstacle, every scheme, and every attack. Continue walking in obedience, keep your eyes on Him, and rest in the confidence that your Heavenly Father is watching over you. The same God who protected David is still protecting His children today, and nothing can stop His good plans for your life.

Here are some ways to live this out today.

• Begin your day by thanking God for His protection before you see the answers.
• When fear tries to imagine the worst, replace those thoughts with God’s promises.
• Pray for wisdom instead of trying to control every situation yourself.
• Look for opportunities to quietly encourage or help someone today.
• End your day by thanking God for the ways He protected you, even the ones you may never know about.

Today’s scripture reading: 2 Samuel 17

1 Moreover Ahithophel said to Absalom, “Now let me choose twelve thousand men, and I will arise and pursue David tonight. 

2 I will come upon him while he is weary and weak, and make him afraid. And all the people who are with him will flee, and I will strike only the king. 

3 Then I will bring back all the people to you. When all return except the man whom you seek, all the people will be at peace.” 

4 And the saying pleased Absalom and all the elders of Israel.

5 Then Absalom said, “Now call Hushai the Archite also, and let us hear what he says too.” 

6 And when Hushai came to Absalom, Absalom spoke to him, saying, “Ahithophel has spoken in this manner. Shall we do as he says? If not, speak up.”

7 So Hushai said to Absalom: “The advice that Ahithophel has given is not good at this time. 

8 For,” said Hushai, “you know your father and his men, that they are mighty men, and they are enraged in their minds, like a bear robbed of her cubs in the field; and your father is a man of war, and will not camp with the people. 

9 Surely by now he is hidden in some pit, or in some other place. And it will be, when some of them are overthrown at the first, that whoever hears it will say, ‘There is a slaughter among the people who follow Absalom.’ 

10 And even he who is valiant, whose heart is like the heart of a lion, will melt completely. For all Israel knows that your father is a mighty man, and those who are with him are valiant men. 

11 Therefore I advise that all Israel be fully gathered to you, from Dan to Beersheba, like the sand that is by the sea for multitude, and that you go to battle in person. 

12 So we will come upon him in some place where he may be found, and we will fall on him as the dew falls on the ground. And of him and all the men who are with him there shall not be left so much as one. 

13 Moreover, if he has withdrawn into a city, then all Israel shall bring ropes to that city; and we will pull it into the river, until there is not one small stone found there.”

14 So Absalom and all the men of Israel said, “The advice of Hushai the Archite is better than the advice of Ahithophel.” For the Lord had purposed to defeat the good advice of Ahithophel, to the intent that the Lord might bring disaster on Absalom.

15 Then Hushai said to Zadok and Abiathar the priests, “Thus and so Ahithophel advised Absalom and the elders of Israel, and thus and so I have advised. 

16 Now therefore, send quickly and tell David, saying, ‘Do not spend this night in the plains of the wilderness, but speedily cross over, lest the king and all the people who are with him be swallowed up.’ ” 

17 Now Jonathan and Ahimaaz stayed at En Rogel, for they dared not be seen coming into the city; so a female servant would come and tell them, and they would go and tell King David. 

18 Nevertheless a lad saw them, and told Absalom. But both of them went away quickly and came to a man’s house in Bahurim, who had a well in his court; and they went down into it. 

19 Then the woman took and spread a covering over the well’s mouth, and spread ground grain on it; and the thing was not known. 

20 And when Absalom’s servants came to the woman at the house, they said, “Where are Ahimaaz and Jonathan?” So the woman said to them, “They have gone over the water brook.” And when they had searched and could not find them, they returned to Jerusalem. 

21 Now it came to pass, after they had departed, that they came up out of the well and went and told King David, and said to David, “Arise and cross over the water quickly. For thus has Ahithophel advised against you.” 

22 So David and all the people who were with him arose and crossed over the Jordan. By morning light not one of them was left who had not gone over the Jordan.

23 Now when Ahithophel saw that his advice was not followed, he saddled a donkey, and arose and went home to his house, to his city. Then he put his household in order, and hanged himself, and died; and he was buried in his father’s tomb.

24 Then David went to Mahanaim. And Absalom crossed over the Jordan, he and all the men of Israel with him. 

25 And Absalom made Amasa captain of the army instead of Joab. This Amasa was the son of a man whose name was Jithra, an Israelite, who had gone in to Abigail the daughter of Nahash, sister of Zeruiah, Joab’s mother. 

26 So Israel and Absalom encamped in the land of Gilead.

27 Now it happened, when David had come to Mahanaim, that Shobi the son of Nahash from Rabbah of the people of Ammon, Machir the son of Ammiel from Lo Debar, and Barzillai the Gileadite from Rogelim, 

28 brought beds and basins, earthen vessels and wheat, barley and flour, parched grain and beans, lentils and parched seeds, 

29 honey and curds, sheep and cheese of the herd, for David and the people who were with him to eat. For they said, “The people are hungry and weary and thirsty in the wilderness.”

Journal:

• Can I think of a time when I realized later that God had protected me?
• What situation am I trying to control instead of trusting God with?
• Where do I need to believe that God is working behind the scenes?
• How can I become part of God’s plan by serving someone else this week?
• What promise from God’s Word reminds me that He is watching over me?

When someone throws stones

“It may be that the Lord will look on my affliction, and that the Lord will repay me with good for his cursing this day.” ~ 2 Samuel 16:12

 Have you ever had someone completely misunderstand your motives or say something about you that simply wasn’t true? Maybe you’ve been criticized for doing the right thing, judged unfairly, or had someone speak harsh words that cut deeper than you expected. If we’re honest, our first response is often to defend ourselves, set the record straight, or think of a really clever comeback that we wish we would’ve said three minutes earlier. Funny how those always come to us on the drive home!

David found himself in a heartbreaking situation in today’s reading. His own son, Absalom, had stolen the hearts of the people and taken over the kingdom. As David fled Jerusalem, a man named Shimei came out throwing stones, kicking up dust, and cursing him every step of the way. David’s mighty warrior, Abishai, immediately wanted to put a stop to it. His solution was simple, remove the problem.

David had a different perspective. Instead of reacting in anger, he trusted God to be his defender. He believed that if he humbled himself before the Lord, God would see his affliction and ultimately turn the situation around for good. That response shows us several powerful lessons for our own lives.

Here are three truths we can hold onto when criticism, unfair treatment, or difficult people come our way.

1. Not Every Attack Needs Your Response

Abishai was ready for action. David was ready to trust God. Sometimes we spend far too much energy trying to defend ourselves against every negative comment, every misunderstanding, or every opinion someone has about us. While there are certainly times to speak the truth, there are also times when silence demonstrates greater faith than an argument ever could.

The next time someone criticizes you unfairly, stop before reacting. Ask the Lord, “Do You want me to answer this, or do You want me to trust You with it?” You might be surprised how much peace comes when you let God handle what only He can truly fix. If someone at work questions your motives or takes credit for something you accomplished, continue serving with integrity instead of trying to win every conversation. God has a way of bringing truth to light at just the right time.

2. God Can Turn Pain Into Blessing

David said something remarkable. “Perhaps the Lord will look on my affliction, and the Lord will repay me with good.” David wasn’t pretending the situation didn’t hurt. He simply believed God was bigger than the hurt.

That same promise encourages us today. God has an amazing ability to take what the enemy intended for harm and use it to strengthen our faith, deepen our character, and position us for something greater.

Instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?” begin asking, “Lord, what do You want to accomplish through this?” If you’re walking through a family conflict, disappointment, or unexpected setback, trust that God is still writing the story. He hasn’t misplaced the final chapter.

3.Humility Leaves Room for God to Work

David could have demanded respect because he was the king. Instead, he humbled himself before God. Humility doesn’t mean allowing people to abuse you. It means recognizing that God’s opinion matters far more than public opinion. Sometimes the strongest thing you can do is quietly continue following God while everyone else is busy throwing stones.

Keep doing what God has called you to do, even if others don’t understand it. Maybe you’re serving faithfully in ministry and someone questions your decisions. Maybe you’re trying to raise your family according to God’s Word while others think you’re old fashioned. Stay the course. God’s approval is worth far more than temporary applause.

I’ve discover that some of the greatest battles I’ve faced weren’t with difficult circumstances, they were with my own desire to defend myself. I want people to understand my heart and know my motives. But God has gently reminded me that my job isn’t to manage everyone’s opinion of me. My responsibility is to stay faithful to what He’s called me to do. I’ve found that when I stop trying to fight every battle myself, I have a lot more energy to accomplish the work He actually gave me to do. Besides, carrying stones around all day is exhausting. I’d rather leave them on the ground and keep walking with Jesus.

Here are a few practical ways to get started:

• Pause before responding to criticism, and ask God if He wants you to answer or simply trust Him.
• Pray for people who have hurt or misunderstood you. It changes your heart as much as it changes the situation.
• Continue doing what God has called you to do, even when others don’t applaud it.
• Remember God’s faithfulness in past seasons when He defended and provided for you.
• Thank Him in advance for bringing good out of difficult situations.

Today I want to encourage you to trust God with every stone that has been thrown your way. He sees every misunderstanding, every unfair accusation, and every painful word that has been spoken against you. You don’t have to carry the burden of defending yourself all the time. Keep your eyes on the Lord, walk in humility, and remain faithful to the path He has set before you. In His perfect timing, He is able to bring good out of every hardship and honor those who continue trusting Him. Let Him be your Defender while you keep serving Him with joy.

Today’s scripture reading: 2 Samuel 16

1 When David was a little past the top of the mountain, there was Ziba the servant of Mephibosheth, who met him with a couple of saddled donkeys, and on them two hundred loaves of bread, one hundred clusters of raisins, one hundred summer fruits, and a skin of wine. 

2 And the king said to Ziba, “What do you mean to do with these?”

So Ziba said, “The donkeys are for the king’s household to ride on, the bread and summer fruit for the young men to eat, and the wine for those who are faint in the wilderness to drink.”

3 Then the king said, “And where is your master’s son?”

And Ziba said to the king, “Indeed he is staying in Jerusalem, for he said, ‘Today the house of Israel will restore the kingdom of my father to me.’ ”

4 So the king said to Ziba, “Here, all that belongs to Mephibosheth is yours.”

And Ziba said, “I humbly bow before you, that I may find favor in your sight, my lord, O king!”

Shimei Curses David

5 Now when King David came to Bahurim, there was a man from the family of the house of Saul, whose name was Shimei the son of Gera, coming from there. He came out, cursing continuously as he came. 

6 And he threw stones at David and at all the servants of King David. And all the people and all the mighty men were on his right hand and on his left. 

7 Also Shimei said thus when he cursed: “Come out! Come out! You bloodthirsty man, you rogue! 

8 The Lord has brought upon you all the blood of the house of Saul, in whose place you have reigned; and the Lord has delivered the kingdom into the hand of Absalom your son. So now you are caught in your own evil, because you are a bloodthirsty man!”

9 Then Abishai the son of Zeruiah said to the king, “Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king? Please, let me go over and take off his head!”

10 But the king said, “What have I to do with you, you sons of Zeruiah? So let him curse, because the Lord has said to him, ‘Curse David.’ Who then shall say, ‘Why have you done so?’ ”

11 And David said to Abishai and all his servants, “See how my son who came from my own body seeks my life. How much more now may this Benjamite? Let him alone, and let him curse; for so the Lord has ordered him. 

12 It may be that the Lord will look on my affliction, and that the Lord will repay me with good for his cursing this day.” 

13 And as David and his men went along the road, Shimei went along the hillside opposite him and cursed as he went, threw stones at him and kicked up dust. 

14 Now the king and all the people who were with him became weary; so they refreshed themselves there.

15 Meanwhile Absalom and all the people, the men of Israel, came to Jerusalem; and Ahithophel was with him. 

16 And so it was, when Hushai the Archite, David’s friend, came to Absalom, that Hushai said to Absalom, “Long live the king! Long live the king!”

17 So Absalom said to Hushai, “Is this your loyalty to your friend? Why did you not go with your friend?”

18 And Hushai said to Absalom, “No, but whom the Lord and this people and all the men of Israel choose, his I will be, and with him I will remain. 

19 Furthermore, whom should I serve? Should I not serve in the presence of his son? As I have served in your father’s presence, so will I be in your presence.”

20 Then Absalom said to Ahithophel, “Give advice as to what we should do.”

21 And Ahithophel said to Absalom, “Go in to your father’s concubines, whom he has left to keep the house; and all Israel will hear that you are abhorred by your father. Then the hands of all who are with you will be strong.” 

22 So they pitched a tent for Absalom on the top of the house, and Absalom went in to his father’s concubines in the sight of all Israel.

23 Now the advice of Ahithophel, which he gave in those days, was as if one had inquired at the oracle of God. So was all the advice of Ahithophel both with David and with Absalom.

Journal:

• Am I spending more energy defending myself than trusting God?
• Is there someone I need to forgive for words they have spoken against me?
• What difficult situation could God be using to strengthen my character?
• Where is God asking me to walk in humility instead of reacting?
• What is one practical step I can take today to trust God more fully with my reputation?