Take a step up!
“And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses.” ~ Mark 11:25 – 26
Have you ever noticed how it’s much easier to pray for a mountain to move than it is to forgive the person who helped build it? If only forgiveness came with a delete button and an “Are you sure?” prompt. Unfortunately, Jesus had something much better in mind.
Today I want to look at verses 25 and 26 in Mark 11, where Jesus continues teaching about having an effective faith life. After talking about mountain moving faith, it almost seems as though He suddenly changes the subject to forgiveness. But He doesn’t.
Before He talks about forgiving, He says, “Whenever you stand praying…” Prayer and forgiveness are connected. Many times I’ve started my prayer time by confessing my own sins and asking for forgiveness, but this passage takes it one step further. Jesus tells us to examine our hearts for unforgiveness before we continue praying. That caught my attention.
In Luke 17:1 – 5, the disciples asked Jesus how many times they should forgive someone who offended them. Peter probably thought he was being super spiritual when he suggested seven times. But, Jesus answered, “Seventy times seven.” The disciples were stunned. Their response wasn’t, “We’ll try harder.” Their response was, “Lord, increase our faith!”
In other words, they realized this kind of forgiveness wasn’t something they could accomplish in their own strength. They needed God’s help.
Jesus went on to explain that forgiveness is part of the life of a servant. It isn’t an optional spiritual extra for especially mature believers. It’s an act of obedience and faith that belongs in the everyday life of every follower of Christ.
To that I say, “Lord, increase my faith!” For many years I believed forgiving others was primarily for my own emotional healing, so I could let go of hurt, bitterness, and offense. While that’s certainly a wonderful result, the Lord began showing me something deeper. Forgiveness isn’t driven by feelings. Forgiveness is a decision of faith. Like so many other steps of faith, obedience comes first, then our emotions gradually catch up.
Some time ago, the Lord showed me an area where I needed to forgive someone. My immediate response was, “Yes, Lord, I forgive them. I just don’t ever want to see them again.” I honestly thought I was making great progress.
Then the Lord gently showed me something I wasn’t expecting. Forgiveness isn’t simply deciding to let something go. It’s allowing His love to fill my heart for that person.
That’s when I found myself saying once again, “Lord, increase my faith!” That certainly wasn’t my definition of forgiveness. I thought “forgive and forget” deserved a great recognition. But Jesus didn’t simply forgive me and move on. He loved me.
When I was broken, sinful, hopeless, and far from Him, He didn’t view me merely as someone who had offended Him. He saw someone who desperately needed a Savior. He forgave me, welcomed me, adopted me into His family, and poured His love into my life.
If that’s how He treated me, then I want to learn to love the people He also died to save. That kind of forgiveness is far beyond natural human thinking. Jesus didn’t see my sin merely as an offense against Himself. He saw it as a cry for help. Because He willingly forgave me, He became the bridge through which God’s love reached my heart.
In much the same way, when we truly forgive others instead of holding on to hurt, resentment, or even indifference, we become a vessel through which God can reach someone else.
That’s why the Apostle Paul wrote in Ephesians 4:32, “Forgive one another, even as God in Christ Jesus forgave you.”
What if every offense became an opportunity instead of an obstacle? What if every difficult person reminded us that someone may be carrying wounds we cannot see? That perspective doesn’t excuse wrong behavior, but it allows God’s love to accomplish something far greater than revenge ever could.
Here are some ways to begin walking in forgiveness today.
- Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal whether you’re holding on to unforgiveness toward anyone.
- Make the decision to forgive, even if your emotions haven’t caught up yet.
- Pray for the person who hurt you, asking God to work in their life as well as yours.
- Remember how completely Christ has forgiven you.
- Ask God to replace bitterness with His love and compassion.
- When painful memories return, choose once again to walk in the forgiveness you’ve already extended.
Forgiveness doesn’t mean pretending the hurt never happened. It means trusting God enough to release the offense into His hands and allowing His love to accomplish what bitterness never could.
Today I want to encourage you to take that next step of faith by choosing forgiveness. Don’t wait until your feelings change before you obey God. As you release offenses into His hands, you’ll discover greater freedom in your own heart, greater confidence in your prayers, and greater opportunities for God’s love to flow through you to others. The same Savior who forgave you completely will strengthen you to forgive those who have hurt you. As you take that step of faith, you’ll become a living example of His grace, opening the door for His love to reach someone who may be crying out for hope, even if they don’t yet know how to ask for it.
Today’s Scripture Reading: Mark 11:20 – 26
20 Now in the morning, as they passed by, they saw the fig tree dried up from the roots.
21 And Peter, remembering, said to Him, “Rabbi, look! The fig tree which You cursed has withered away.”
22 So Jesus answered and said to them, “Have faith in God.
23 For assuredly, I say to you, whoever says to this mountain, ‘Be removed and be cast into the sea,’ and does not doubt in his heart, but believes that those things he says will be done, he will have whatever he says.
24 Therefore I say to you, whatever things you ask when you pray, believe that you receive them, and you will have them.
25 “And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses.
26 But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses.”
Journal:
- Is there anyone I’ve forgiven with my words but still struggle to love in my heart?
- Have I been waiting for my feelings to change before taking the step of forgiveness?
- How does remembering Christ’s forgiveness toward me help me extend forgiveness to others?
- Is there someone God may be wanting to reach through my willingness to forgive?
- What practical step can I take today to release an offense and allow God’s love to fill that place instead?