Before You Make Your Next Move
“So David inquired of the Lord, saying, ‘Shall I go up into any of the cities of Judah?’ And the Lord said to him, ‘Go up.'” ~ 2 Samuel 2:1
Have you ever stood in the grocery store staring at two jars of peanut butter for five minutes, wondering which one to buy? Crunchy or creamy suddenly feels like a life changing decision. If we can overthink something that simple, it’s no surprise we sometimes struggle to know what to do with the bigger decisions in life. We’ve all been there. Should I take the new job? Is this the right relationship? Should I step into ministry? Do I wait, or do I move forward?
David found himself standing at one of the biggest crossroads of his life. Saul was gone. The throne had finally become available. Most people would’ve assumed they knew exactly what to do. After all, God had already anointed David to be king years earlier. But David didn’t assume. He stopped and asked God first. That one decision set the tone for everything that followed.
Before we rush ahead with our own plans, let’s look at three take aways from David that can help us confidently follow God’s direction.
1. Ask God before you assume you know the answer.
David already knew he was called to be king, but he still asked, “Shall I go?” Then he asked another question, “Where should I go?” David didn’t just want God’s promise. He wanted God’s way, timing and direction. Sometimes we pray until we think we know the answer, then stop listening. God often wants to guide us one step at a time.
Maybe you’re considering a career move, deciding where to serve, or wondering whether to make a major purchase. Instead of assuming because something looks good, pause and ask God. He cares about your everyday decisions just as much as your life changing ones. God’s direction often comes one faithful step at a time.
2. Trust that God’s plan doesn’t always happen all at once.
David was anointed king over Judah first, not all of Israel. God’s promise came in stages.
Most of us love microwave results, but God usually works like a slow cooker. It’s not as fast, but the outcome is worth the wait. We sometimes think that if God has promised something, it should happen immediately. Yet He often uses the waiting season to prepare us for what He’s preparing to give us.
Maybe you’re praying for a restored relationship, a ministry opportunity, or a dream that’s been in your heart for years. Don’t mistake a partial answer for a forgotten promise. God is still working. Celebrate every step forward, even if it isn’t the whole picture yet.
3. Choose peace whenever possible.
The second half of this chapter shows conflict breaking out between David’s followers and those loyal to Saul’s family. What began as a contest quickly turned into unnecessary bloodshed. It’s a reminder that not every battle is worth fighting.
In today’s world it’s easy to argue over social media posts, family opinions, workplace disagreements, and just about anything else. Sometimes we spend more energy trying to win an argument than we do loving the people involved.
Before jumping into the next disagreement, ask yourself, “Will this bring peace, or will it simply prove I’m right?” God calls us to be peacemakers, not professional debaters.
David’s life reminds us that seeking God isn’t just something we do during a crisis. It’s a lifestyle. The more we ask for His direction, the more we’ll recognize His voice. He delights in leading His children, and He never grows tired of us coming to Him for wisdom.
Today I want to encourage you to bring your next decision before the Lord, whether it seems big or small. Don’t let pressure from the world rush you into moving ahead without His guidance. God already knows what’s around the corner, and He’s faithful to direct every step that’s surrendered to Him. Trust His timing, follow His leading, and remember that delayed doesn’t mean denied. As you continue to seek Him first, you’ll discover that His plans are always better than anything you could have mapped out on your own.
Today’s scripture reading: 1 Samuel 2
1 It happened after this that David inquired of the Lord, saying, “Shall I go up to any of the cities of Judah?” And the Lord said to him, “Go up.” David said, “Where shall I go up?” And He said, “To Hebron.”
2 So David went up there, and his two wives also, Ahinoam the Jezreelitess, and Abigail the widow of Nabal the Carmelite.
3 And David brought up the men who were with him, every man with his household. So they dwelt in the cities of Hebron.
4 Then the men of Judah came, and there they anointed David king over the house of Judah. And they told David, saying, “The men of Jabesh Gilead were the ones who buried Saul.”
5 So David sent messengers to the men of Jabesh Gilead, and said to them, “You are blessed of the Lord, for you have shown this kindness to your lord, to Saul, and have buried him.
6 And now may the Lord show kindness and truth to you. I also will repay you this kindness, because you have done this thing.
7 Now therefore, let your hands be strengthened, and be valiant; for your master Saul is dead, and also the house of Judah has anointed me king over them.”
8 But Abner the son of Ner, commander of Saul’s army, took Ishbosheth the son of Saul and brought him over to Mahanaim;
9 and he made him king over Gilead, over the Ashurites, over Jezreel, over Ephraim, over Benjamin, and over all Israel.
10 Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, was forty years old when he began to reign over Israel, and he reigned two years. Only the house of Judah followed David.
11 And the time that David was king in Hebron over the house of Judah was seven years and six months.
12 Now Abner the son of Ner, and the servants of Ishbosheth the son of Saul, went out from Mahanaim to Gibeon.
13 And Joab the son of Zeruiah, and the servants of David, went out and met them by the pool of Gibeon. So they sat down, one on one side of the pool and the other on the other side of the pool.
14 Then Abner said to Joab, “Let the young men now arise and compete before us.”
And Joab said, “Let them arise.”
15 So they arose and went over by number, twelve from Benjamin, followers of Ishbosheth the son of Saul, and twelve from the servants of David.
16 And each one grasped his opponent by the head and thrust his sword in his opponent’s side; so they fell down together. Therefore that place was called the Field of Sharp Swords, which is in Gibeon.
17So there was a very fierce battle that day, and Abner and the men of Israel were beaten before the servants of David.
18 Now the three sons of Zeruiah were there: Joab and Abishai and Asahel. And Asahel was as fleet of foot as a wild gazelle.
19 So Asahel pursued Abner, and in going he did not turn to the right hand or to the left from following Abner.
20 Then Abner looked behind him and said, “Are you Asahel?” He answered, “I am.”
21 And Abner said to him, “Turn aside to your right hand or to your left, and lay hold on one of the young men and take his armor for yourself.” But Asahel would not turn aside from following him.
22 So Abner said again to Asahel, “Turn aside from following me. Why should I strike you to the ground? How then could I face your brother Joab?”
23 However, he refused to turn aside. Therefore Abner struck him in the stomach with the blunt end of the spear, so that the spear came out of his back; and he fell down there and died on the spot. So it was that as many as came to the place where Asahel fell down and died, stood still.
24 Joab and Abishai also pursued Abner. And the sun was going down when they came to the hill of Ammah, which is before Giah by the road to the Wilderness of Gibeon.
25 Now the children of Benjamin gathered together behind Abner and became a unit, and took their stand on top of a hill.
26 Then Abner called to Joab and said, “Shall the sword devour forever? Do you not know that it will be bitter in the latter end? How long will it be then until you tell the people to return from pursuing their brethren?”
27 And Joab said, “As God lives, unless you had spoken, surely then by morning all the people would have given up pursuing their brethren.”
28 So Joab blew a trumpet; and all the people stood still and did not pursue Israel anymore, nor did they fight anymore.
29 Then Abner and his men went on all that night through the plain, crossed over the Jordan, and went through all Bithron; and they came to Mahanaim.
30 So Joab returned from pursuing Abner. And when he had gathered all the people together, there were missing of David’s servants nineteen men and Asahel.
31 But the servants of David had struck down, of Benjamin and Abner’s men, three hundred and sixty men who died.
32 Then they took up Asahel and buried him in his father’s tomb, which was in Bethlehem. And Joab and his men went all night, and they came to Hebron at daybreak.
Journal:
- What decision am I trying to make on my own instead of asking God for His direction?
- Where have I become impatient with God’s timing, and how can I choose to trust Him today?
- Is there a situation in my life where I can choose peace instead of proving my point?