When your heart starts drifting
For it was so, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned his heart after other gods; and his heart was not loyal to the Lord his God, as was the heart of his father David. ~ 1 Kings 11:4
Have you ever noticed that drifting doesn’t usually feel like drifting? You don’t wake up one morning and decide, “Today I think I’ll wander away from God.” Usually, it happens a little at a time. One compromise here, one distraction there, one missed weekend service here and there, one relationship that pulls you in a direction you know isn’t good for you. Before long, you look around and wonder, “How did I get this far from where I started?” It’s a little like getting off the wrong exit while driving. You may not notice it immediately, especially if the road still looks familiar. But eventually, you realize you’re headed somewhere you never intended to go.
That’s what makes today’s scripture reading such a powerful warning for us. Solomon had everything. He had wisdom, wealth, influence, position, and a relationship with God that had once been remarkable. Yet the very things he allowed into his life gradually pulled his heart away from the Lord. His downfall didn’t happen because he suddenly stopped believing in God. His heart simply became divided.
That’s a warning we need to take seriously as God’s people living in today’s world. We’re surrounded by voices competing for our attention, our loyalty, our time, our money, and our hearts. Culture has plenty of opinions about what should matter most, and if we’re not careful, we can begin giving our hearts away in little pieces.
Here are three important truths from this chapter to remind you that God isn’t trying to take something good away from you. He’s protecting something valuable in you. He wants your heart.
1. What you allow close to you can influence where your heart goes.
Solomon’s problem wasn’t simply that he had relationships with people who didn’t follow God. The problem was that those relationships eventually influenced his worship and his devotion to the Lord. First Kings 11:2 says that his wives “turned away his heart.” What had been close to Solomon eventually became influential over Solomon.
That’s still true today. The people we spend time with, the voices we listen to, the entertainment we consume, the opinions we constantly hear, and the environments we willingly place ourselves in can shape our thinking more than we realize.
This doesn’t mean we isolate ourselves from people who don’t know Jesus. Jesus called us to be a light in the world. But there’s a difference between influencing people toward the Lord Jesus and allowing the world to influence you away from Him.
Maybe you’re working in an environment where everyone around you talks negatively, compromises their integrity, or makes fun of your faith. You can still be kind, loving, and present without allowing their values to become yours. Maybe you have a friendship that constantly pulls you away from the things God is asking you to do. You may need to establish some healthy boundaries. Maybe your phone is discipling you more than your Bible is. Ouch. That one gets a little personal.
Ask yourself, “What has the closest access to my heart right now?” You don’t have to fear the world, but you do need to guard your heart.
2. Small compromises can create big consequences.
Solomon didn’t become spiritually divided overnight. First Kings 11 describes a gradual turning of his heart. What started as something he permitted eventually became something that competed with his devotion to God.
That’s how compromise works. It rarely announces itself with flashing lights and a giant warning sign. It often looks reasonable. “It’s not that big of a deal.” “Everybody does it.” “I can handle it.” “I know what God says, but this is different.” The problem is that every compromise makes the next compromise a little easier.
Maybe God has already been nudging you about something you need to change. Perhaps it’s an unhealthy relationship, an attitude you’ve been carrying, the way you handle money, something you’re watching, or the way you’re speaking about someone. Don’t ignore those little convictions. What feels small today can become something much bigger tomorrow.
When the Holy Spirit puts His finger on something in your life, don’t argue with Him. Obey Him. You don’t have to fix your entire life in one afternoon. Just take the next right step. Apologize. Set the boundary. Delete the app. Have the difficult conversation. Change the habit. Open your Bible. Get back into prayer. Sometimes obedience looks very simple and ordinary, but ordinary obedience can protect your future.
3. Protect your heart because your heart determines your direction.
One of the saddest statements in 1 Kings 11 is that Solomon’s heart was no longer fully devoted to the Lord. He had started with such wisdom, yet he eventually allowed his heart to become divided.
Proverbs 4:23 tells us, Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life. Your heart matters because your life eventually follows what has captured your heart.
If success has your heart, you’ll sacrifice everything to get more of it. If approval has your heart, you’ll constantly live trying to keep everyone happy. If fear has your heart, you’ll make decisions based on what might happen instead of trusting God. If comfort has your heart, you’ll avoid anything that requires faith. But when Jesus has your heart, everything else begins finding its proper place.
Maybe you’re in a season where you’re waiting for God to answer a prayer. Guard your heart from discouragement. Maybe you’re stepping into something new and you’re afraid you’ll fail. Guard your heart from fear. Maybe you’re experiencing success and people are finally noticing your gifts. Guard your heart from pride. If you’ve already drifted, don’t hide from God. Run toward Him.
The good news of Scripture isn’t that we never stumble. The good news is that God is merciful when we turn back to Him. Solomon’s story reminds us that wisdom alone isn’t enough. We need continual surrender. We need a heart that keeps choosing God.
The world doesn’t need Christians who simply know about God. It needs people whose lives demonstrate what it looks like to belong completely to Him. We’re called to live differently, not because we’re better than anyone else, but because we belong to Someone greater.
Today I want to encourage you, don’t wait until you’ve wandered a long way before checking the direction of your heart. Take some time today and ask God to show you anything that has begun competing for your devotion. Pay attention to the people, habits, priorities, and voices that are influencing you. You don’t have to figure everything out at once. Just make sure your heart is still pointed toward Jesus.
You may not be able to control every voice around you, but you can decide which voice gets the final word. You may not be able to control every circumstance, but you can choose where you place your trust. And you may not know everything God is doing in your life, but you can know the One who holds your future.
Don’t let the world slowly pull your heart in a direction you never intended to go. Stay close to Jesus. Keep His Word in front of you. Keep prayer on your lips. Keep obedience as your response. When your heart belongs to Him, you don’t have to have every part of the plan, you simply need to trust the One who already sees the whole picture.
Today’s scripture reading: 1 Kings 11
1 But King Solomon loved many foreign women, as well as the daughter of Pharaoh: women of the Moabites, Ammonites, Edomites, Sidonians, and Hittites—
2 from the nations of whom the Lord had said to the children of Israel, “You shall not intermarry with them, nor they with you. Surely they will turn away your hearts after their gods.” Solomon clung to these in love.
3 And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines; and his wives turned away his heart.
4 For it was so, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned his heart after other gods; and his heart was not loyal to the Lord his God, as was the heart of his father David.
5 For Solomon went after Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians, and after Milcom the abomination of the Ammonites.
6 Solomon did evil in the sight of the Lord, and did not fully follow the Lord, as did his father David.
7 Then Solomon built a high place for Chemosh the abomination of Moab, on the hill that is east of Jerusalem, and for Molech the abomination of the people of Ammon.
8 And he did likewise for all his foreign wives, who burned incense and sacrificed to their gods.
9 So the Lord became angry with Solomon, because his heart had turned from the Lord God of Israel, who had appeared to him twice,
10 and had commanded him concerning this thing, that he should not go after other gods; but he did not keep what the Lord had commanded.
11 Therefore the Lord said to Solomon, “Because you have done this, and have not kept My covenant and My statutes, which I have commanded you, I will surely tear the kingdom away from you and give it to your servant.
12 Nevertheless I will not do it in your days, for the sake of your father David; I will tear it out of the hand of your son.
13 However I will not tear away the whole kingdom; I will give one tribe to your son for the sake of My servant David, and for the sake of Jerusalem which I have chosen.”
14 Now the Lord raised up an adversary against Solomon, Hadad the Edomite; he was a descendant of the king in Edom.
15 For it happened, when David was in Edom, and Joab the commander of the army had gone up to bury the slain, after he had killed every male in Edom
16 (because for six months Joab remained there with all Israel, until he had cut down every male in Edom),
17 that Hadad fled to go to Egypt, he and certain Edomites of his father’s servants with him. Hadad was still a little child.
18 Then they arose from Midian and came to Paran; and they took men with them from Paran and came to Egypt, to Pharaoh king of Egypt, who gave him a house, apportioned food for him, and gave him land.
19 And Hadad found great favor in the sight of Pharaoh, so that he gave him as wife the sister of his own wife, that is, the sister of Queen Tahpenes.
20 Then the sister of Tahpenes bore him Genubath his son, whom Tahpenes weaned in Pharaoh’s house. And Genubath was in Pharaoh’s household among the sons of Pharaoh.
21 So when Hadad heard in Egypt that David rested with his fathers, and that Joab the commander of the army was dead, Hadad said to Pharaoh, “Let me depart, that I may go to my own country.”
22 Then Pharaoh said to him, “But what have you lacked with me, that suddenly you seek to go to your own country?” So he answered, “Nothing, but do let me go anyway.”
23 And God raised up another adversary against him, Rezon the son of Eliadah, who had fled from his lord, Hadadezer king of Zobah.
24 So he gathered men to him and became captain over a band of raiders, when David killed those of Zobah. And they went to Damascus and dwelt there, and reigned in Damascus.
25 He was an adversary of Israel all the days of Solomon (besides the trouble that Hadad caused); and he abhorred Israel, and reigned over Syria.
Jeroboam’s Rebellion
26 Then Solomon’s servant, Jeroboam the son of Nebat, an Ephraimite from Zereda, whose mother’s name was Zeruah, a widow, also rebelled against the king.
27 And this is what caused him to rebel against the king: Solomon had built the Millo and repaired the damages to the City of David his father.
28 The man Jeroboam was a mighty man of valor; and Solomon, seeing that the young man was industrious, made him the officer over all the labor force of the house of Joseph.
29 Now it happened at that time, when Jeroboam went out of Jerusalem, that the prophet Ahijah the Shilonite met him on the way; and he had clothed himself with a new garment, and the two were alone in the field.
30 Then Ahijah took hold of the new garment that was on him, and tore it into twelve pieces.
31 And he said to Jeroboam, “Take for yourself ten pieces, for thus says the Lord, the God of Israel: ‘Behold, I will tear the kingdom out of the hand of Solomon and will give ten tribes to you
32 (but he shall have one tribe for the sake of My servant David, and for the sake of Jerusalem, the city which I have chosen out of all the tribes of Israel),
33 because they have forsaken Me, and worshiped Ashtoreth the goddess of the Sidonians, Chemosh the god of the Moabites, and Milcom the god of the people of Ammon, and have not walked in My ways to do what is right in My eyes and keep My statutes and My judgments, as did his father David.
34 However I will not take the whole kingdom out of his hand, because I have made him ruler all the days of his life for the sake of My servant David, whom I chose because he kept My commandments and My statutes.
35 But I will take the kingdom out of his son’s hand and give it to you—ten tribes.
36 And to his son I will give one tribe, that My servant David may always have a lamp before Me in Jerusalem, the city which I have chosen for Myself, to put My name there.
37 So I will take you, and you shall reign over all your heart desires, and you shall be king over Israel.
38 Then it shall be, if you heed all that I command you, walk in My ways, and do what is right in My sight, to keep My statutes and My commandments, as My servant David did, then I will be with you and build for you an enduring house, as I built for David, and will give Israel to you.
39 And I will afflict the descendants of David because of this, but not forever.’ ”
40 Solomon therefore sought to kill Jeroboam. But Jeroboam arose and fled to Egypt, to Shishak king of Egypt, and was in Egypt until the death of Solomon.
Death of Solomon
41 Now the rest of the acts of Solomon, all that he did, and his wisdom, are they not written in the book of the acts of Solomon?
42 And the period that Solomon reigned in Jerusalem over all Israel was forty years.
43 Then Solomon rested with his fathers, and was buried in the City of David his father. And Rehoboam his son reigned in his place.
Journal:
- What people, habits, or influences currently have the greatest access to my heart?
- Is there an area where I’ve allowed a small compromise to become a pattern?
- What has God been nudging me to change, stop, start, or surrender?
- What is one practical step I can take today to put Jesus back at the center?
- Where do I need to pray, “Lord, keep my heart fully devoted to You”?