Ecclesiastes 8:1-9

No questions

I say, “Keep the king’s commandment for the sake of your oath to God. ~ Ecclesiastes 8:2

At the beginning of this year, there was a change in the leadership of our country. Leadership shifts are a regular part of life and every few years, we see a new face in the highest office of the land. This time felt unique because the president who stepped in had already served before. In some ways, we knew what to expect, but even so, opinions were divided. Some celebrated the change while others not so much. The fact is that every leader brings change, and how we respond says a lot about our trust, not just in people, but mostly in God.

In Ecclesiastes 8, Solomon gives a powerful instruction: Obey the king, not for the king’s sake, but for the sake of your oath to God. In other words, honor leadership because of your higher allegiance to God, not because you agree with every decision that is made.

This is a difficult truth in a time where questioning authority is almost second nature. Yet the wisdom of God says: “Don’t be quick to walk away… don’t put yourself in agreement with rebellion… and remember, the king has power you may not understand” (vv. 3–4). These verses aren’t about blind obedience but about honoring God’s order and trusting His timing, especially in times when circumstances feel unjust or confusing.

This was the reality during Jesus’ earthly ministry. The people of Israel lived under Roman occupation, a government that was pagan, harsh, and foreign. Yet, Jesus didn’t lead an uprising or teach rebellion. Instead, He told His followers to give Caesar what belonged to Caesar and to live peacefully and honorably as citizens of heaven first.

This is not to say we accept injustice or ignore wrongdoing. There’s a time for godly resistance, but wisdom teaches us to be slow to react, careful with our words, and discerning about the timing and the way we respond (v.5–6). God is a God of order, and His wisdom teaches us to trust Him through the systems of this world, even the imperfect ones.

I remember a season when I deeply disagreed with a decision made by a leader I was under. Everything in me wanted to speak up, argue, or even walk away. But during that time, I sensed the Lord putting on my heart to stay, serve, and pray. It wasn’t easy. I had many internal conversations with God asking why and how long. But as I leaned into wisdom instead of reaction, I saw God work things out in ways I never could have through rebellion. That experience taught me that God honors those who trust His authority above man’s, and He fights for those who walk in humility and peace. 

Trusting God doesn’t mean fighting against authority until it gives in to pressure. Trusting God means pressing into Him and waiting for His timing, all the while believing that as we live peaceably with all people, He is at work behind the scenes. Doing things God’s way and placing our trust in Him opens the door for Him to bring about the best possible outcome, which is something we never could orchestrate on our own.

Below are the steps we should be doing to support out leaders and give God the entrance to bring about His good plan and purpose in this time and season of government rule:

  1. Honor leadership, even when it’s difficult
    Not because you approve of every choice, but because you honor God above all. Speak with respect, even in disagreement.
  2. Practice wisdom over reaction
    Verse 5 says, “A wise man’s heart discerns both time and judgment.” Before you speak or act, pause and pray. Is this the right time? Is this the right way?
  3. Trust God with what you cannot control
    Verse 7 reminds us, “No one knows what will happen.” Don’t live in fear of the unknown. God already knows the outcome, and He holds your future securely.
  4. Avoid agreeing with evil out of frustration
    Verse 3 warns against standing for an “evil thing.” Don’t let bitterness or discouragement push you into rebellion or gossip. Stay anchored in truth and peace.

You can get started on these steps today.  If it seems like you don’t want to or that it will be very difficult to change your perspective, consider starting here:

  • Start with prayer. Ask the Holy Spirit for a heart that honors leadership and discerns wisely and give God full access to your heart to do His good works.
  • Read Romans 13:1–7 alongside Ecclesiastes 8 and reflect on God’s perspective of authority.
  • Choose silence over criticism for one week when it comes to leadership, whether in government, your workplace, or your church. Focus instead on speaking words of blessing.
  • Ask God to search your heart. Are there areas where rebellion, frustration, or impatience have taken root? Surrender those to Him.

Today I want to encourage you to remember in a world full of opinions, debates, and discontent, Ecclesiastes 8:4 says, “Where the word of a king is, there is power; and who may say to him, ‘What are you doing?’” This isn’t a call to silence, but a call to trust that God’s hand is over every ruler and every season. You don’t have to have all the answers. You don’t have to fight every battle. Sometimes, the wisest and most powerful thing you can do is to submit to God, walk in wisdom, and trust Him with what you don’t understand.

Let today be the day you choose to release control, honor authority, and walk in peace with no questions asked. Just do it because you decide to do things God’s way and when God sees your willing heart of obedience, and He will honor it in due time.

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 8:1-9

1 Who is like a wise man? And who knows the interpretation of a thing? A man’s wisdom makes his face shine, and the sternness of his face is changed.

2 I say, “Keep the king’s commandment for the sake of your oath to God.

3 Do not be hasty to go from his presence. Do not take your stand for an evil thing, for he does whatever pleases him.”

4 Where the word of a king is, there is power; And who may say to him, “What are you doing?”

5 He who keeps his command will experience nothing harmful; And a wise man’s heart discerns both time and judgment,

6 Because for every matter there is a time and judgment, though the misery of man increases greatly.

7 For he does not know what will happen; So who can tell him when it will occur?

8 No one has power over the spirit to retain the spirit, and no one has power in the day of death. There is no release from that war, and wickedness will not deliver those who are given to it.

9 All this I have seen, and applied my heart to every work that is done under the sun: There is a time in which one man rules over another to his own hurt.

Ecclesiastes 7:15-29

Don’t take it to heart, take it to Him

Also do not take to heart everything people say, lest you hear your servant cursing you. For many times, also, your own heart has known that even you have cursed others. ~ Ecclesiastes 7:21-22

Have you ever had someone repeat something negative that was said about you? Maybe it was a friend, a family member, or even a co-worker who passed along a hurtful comment, whether out of concern or to influence your decisions. It doesn’t matter what the motive was, hearing that someone has spoken ill of you can wound your heart and shake your confidence, especially when you’ve been trying to do the right things and have a heart to serve others well.

In today’s reading, Solomon reminds us of something we often forget: people talk, and not everything they say is the truth or even how they really feel. Sometimes, people speak from frustration, emotion, or misunderstanding. And if we’re honest, we’ve done the same. We’ve all had moments where we’ve said things we regretted, maybe even about someone we care deeply about. That’s why Solomon says, don’t take everything to heart. It’s wise counsel for protecting your peace.

But what if the roles are reversed? Have you ever been the one who said something careless or unkind, only to find out it made its way back to the person it was about? That uncomfortable moment can bring a wave of regret. This passage reminds us that with humility, not just to extend grace when we’re hurt, but also to recognize when we’ve hurt someone else. Solomon says, “your own heart has known that even you have cursed others” (v. 22). He’s pointing us to a bigger truth: none of us are exempt from needing grace. We’re all learning, growing, and sometimes stumbling in our words. When we recognize our own shortcomings, it softens our heart toward others and teaches us to use our words more wisely.

This portion of Ecclesiastes is full of wisdom that grounds us in humility and balance. Solomon knows that life isn’t always fair and sometimes the righteous suffer while the wicked seem to flourish. He warns against extremes: don’t be overly righteous (self-righteous) or overly wicked (foolish). Instead, walk in the fear of the Lord and seek wisdom, because wisdom strengthens us like nothing else can (v. 18–19).

Solomon goes on to confess how elusive true understanding is. He searched for meaning, sought wisdom, and still realized that some things are too deep to grasp. Humans are flawed and we were created upright, but we’ve gone after countless distractions, deceptions, and schemes (v. 29). It’s a sobering truth, but it helps us understand why people (ourselves included) often fall short.

Here are some points to keep in mind as you navigate these uncertain times:

  1. Let Go of Offense
    When you hear something hurtful, take a breath before you react. Ask God for wisdom and discernment. Sometimes it’s not even worth a response. Protect your heart by filtering what you allow to sink in. “Do not take to heart everything people say…” (v. 21)
  2. Own Your Words
    If something you said hurt someone else, be quick to apologize. Be humble enough to acknowledge your missteps. Let that experience shape how you speak going forward.
    “For many times, your own heart has known that even you have cursed others.” (v. 22)
  3. Pursue Wisdom with Humility
    Don’t chase perfection or try to understand everything. Some things will remain a mystery. Instead, commit to walking in God’s wisdom day by day, trusting Him with what you can’t control or explain.
    “Wisdom strengthens the wise…” (v. 19)

You don’t have to be trapped by past words, spoken by you or about you. Today can be a turning point. God’s mercy is new every morning, and His Spirit is ready to help you walk in wisdom and speak with grace. Your words can bring healing, encouragement, and hope to a world desperate for truth and kindness. Let today be the day you shift. Ask the Holy Spirit to do a good work in your heart and your mouth. Don’t take it to heart, take it to Him and follow the steps below:

  • Start your day with prayer, asking God to help you filter your thoughts and protect your heart from unnecessary offense.
  • Spend time in Proverbs or Ecclesiastes—books that are rich with wisdom for daily living.
  • Memorize Ecclesiastes 7:21–22 as a reminder to release offense and walk in grace toward others and yourself.
  • Practice kindness and self-awareness in your speech, even when you’re tempted to vent. Be someone others can trust with their name when they’re not around.

Today I want to encourage you to remember that life is full of people who will speak carelessly, misunderstand your heart, or try to steer your choices with their words. But don’t let their voices define your peace. Don’t take it all to heart. If you’ve been the one whose words have hurt, don’t let shame weigh you down.  Instead, make it right, and grow from it. Solomon’s wisdom is both grounding and freeing: we’re all imperfect, all in need of grace, and all invited to walk in wisdom and humility.

So today, let go of what was said and what you may have said. Forgive, ask for forgiveness, and move forward. Guard your heart, watch your words, and let the wisdom of God lead you in peace. Don’t take it to heart, take it to Him.

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 7:15-29

15 I have seen everything in my days of vanity: There is a just man who perishes in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man who prolongs life in his wickedness.

16 Do not be overly righteous, nor be overly wise: Why should you destroy yourself?

17 Do not be overly wicked, nor be foolish: Why should you die before your time?

18 It is good that you grasp this, and also not remove your hand from the other; For he who fears God will escape them all.

19 Wisdom strengthens the wise more than ten rulers of the city.

20 For there is not a just man on earth who does good and does not sin.

21 Also do not take to heart everything people say, lest you hear your servant cursing you.

22 For many times, also, your own heart has known that even you have cursed others.

23 All this I have proved by wisdom. I said, “I will be wise”; But it was far from me.

24 As for that which is far off and exceedingly deep, who can find it out?

25 I applied my heart to know, to search and seek out wisdom and the reason of things, to know the wickedness of folly, even of foolishness and madness.

26 And I find more bitter than death the woman whose heart is snares and nets, whose hands are fetters. He who pleases God shall escape from her, but the sinner shall be trapped by her.

27 Here is what I have found,” says the Preacher, “Adding one thing to the other to find out the reason,

28 Which my soul still seeks but I cannot find: One man among a thousand I have found, but a woman among all these I have not found.

29 Truly, this only I have found: That God made man upright, but they have sought out many schemes.”

Ecclesiastes 7:1-14

Find Wisdom in the hard things

Wisdom is a shelter as money is a shelter, but the advantage of knowledge is this: Wisdom preserves those who have it. ~ Ecclesiastes 7:12

Ecclesiastes 7 is filled with what might seem like surprising truths. It challenges the way we naturally think about life, especially the hard times. Verses like “the day of death is better than the day of birth” and “sorrow is better than laughter” might sound strange at first glance, but king Solomon, the writer, is offering us a deeper perspective: wisdom is often gained through life’s harder seasons.

We tend to avoid pain, loss, or correction. Yet, those are the very things Solomon says are more valuable than the good times in life or celebration. Why? Because those are the times that grow and develop our character. They mature us. They open our eyes to what really matters.

In other words, wisdom isn’t just found in books or good advice, but it’s often strengthened in life’s difficulties.

So how do we begin to embrace this upside-down wisdom in a world that constantly pushes comfort, success, and positivity? Here are a few ways to get started:

  1. Let tough seasons teach you.
    Instead of asking, “Why is this happening to me?” ask, “Lord, what wisdom to You have for me through this?” Wisdom is rarely gained in the shallow end of life. It’s in the deep waters where we grow strong.
  2. Welcome correction.
    Verse 5 says, “It is better to heed the rebuke of a wise person than to listen to the song of fools.” That means we should actually value constructive criticism. When it’s done in love, it shapes us into who we’re meant to be.
  3. Don’t rush the process.
    Verse 8 reminds us, “The end of a matter is better than its beginning, and patience is better than pride.” Hang in there. God often does His best work in us over time, not overnight.
  4. Trust God in mystery.
    Ecclesiastes 7:14 says, When times are good, be happy; but when times are bad, consider this: God has made the one as well as the other. This is an invitation to trust Him even when life doesn’t make sense, because we know He sees the whole picture.
  5. Pursue wisdom more than comfort.
    Make decisions not just based on what feels good, but what is wise and lasting. God’s wisdom will preserve you far longer than anything money, fame, or ease ever could.

Life won’t always make sense. It won’t always be fair or easy. But that doesn’t mean it’s meaningless. According to Ecclesiastes 7, some of the greatest treasures in life like wisdom, maturity, depth of character, are found when we embrace what God is doing even in the hard seasons.

You don’t have to fear hardship or avoid sorrow. Instead, lean in. Let God use the hard times to shape you into someone who stands strong, speaks truth, and lives well. Wisdom will preserve you. God will guide you. And through it all, you’ll come out stronger than before.

So today, I want to encourage you to not run from the struggle, but instead ask for wisdom in the middle of it. Trust that God is doing something deep and beautiful in you, even when it’s uncomfortable. Let Him teach you, mold you, and walk with you every step of the way. Because in the end, wisdom will be your shelter, and you’ll look back and see just how far He’s brought you because You trusted Him through the hard times.

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 7:1-14

1 A good name is better than precious ointment, and the day of death than the day of one’s birth;

2 Better to go to the house of mourning than to go to the house of feasting, for that is the end of all men; And the living will take it to heart.

3 Sorrow is better than laughter, for by a sad countenance the heart is made better.

4 The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning, but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.

5 It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise than for a man to hear the song of fools.

6 For like the crackling of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fool. This also is vanity.

7 Surely oppression destroys a wise man’s reason, and a bribe debases the heart.

8 The end of a thing is better than its beginning; The patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.

9 Do not hasten in your spirit to be angry, for anger rests in the bosom of fools.

10 Do not say, “Why were the former days better than these?” For you do not inquire wisely concerning this.

11 Wisdom is good with an inheritance, and profitable to those who see the sun.

12 For wisdom is a defense as money is a defense, but the excellence of knowledge is that wisdom gives life to those who have it.

13 Consider the work of God; For who can make straight what He has made crooked?

14 In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider: Surely God has appointed the one as well as the other, so that man can find out nothing that will come after him.

From the Daily Dose Journal Series

Pray for boldness

Now, Lord, look on their threats, and grant to Your servants that with all boldness they may speak Your word. Acts 4:29

A few years ago, I found myself in a tough season where I was struggling with constant fatigue and significant pain in my body. At the time, I was working with someone who had recently been diagnosed with fibromyalgia, and her main symptoms were widespread pain and exhaustion. Naturally, my mind went straight to worst-case scenarios. Is this what I’m dealing with too? I didn’t voice those fears, but they were loud in my thoughts.

Thankfully, I understood enough about the enemy’s tactics to not give those thoughts power by speaking them out loud. Instead, I brought it to God in prayer every day. I kept asking Him to take the pain away, to help me feel better so I could get up and go about my daily life without such a struggle.

Then one morning, as I got out of my car and walked toward the door at work, I asked again in frustration, “Lord, what is wrong with me?” Immediately, I sensed the Holy Spirit respond, “You’re asking the wrong question.”

I had never considered there was a right question, So, I asked, “What should I be asking?” And just like that, it all made sense: I was focusing all my prayers and attention on removing the pain rather than asking God to give me His grace to walk through it. I realized that God had brought me through every trial in the past and this time would be no different. The question wasn’t why it was happening or even what it was, but rather, Thank You, Lord for taking me through to victory.

Today’s passage in Acts 4 offers a powerful example of this shift in perspective. After Peter and John were released from questioning and threats by the religious leaders, the early church didn’t gather to pray for protection, safety, or even relief. Instead, they prayed for boldness.

They didn’t ask God to stop the persecution or silence their accusers. They asked Him to make them even bolder. To speak the truth more fearlessly and to move in the power of the Holy Spirit even more powerfully. Why? Because they knew the message of Jesus was the only hope for the world, and they refused to let anything stop them from sharing it.

And God answered their prayer, mightily.
“And when they had prayed, the place where they were assembled together was shaken; and they were all filled with the Holy Spirit, and they spoke the word of God with boldness.”
~ Acts 4:31

Are you going through something right now, something painful, discouraging, or confusing? Don’t let it stop you in your tracks and don’t turn around and go back where you started from.  Instead press in and keep moving toward your destination. Here’s how you can begin shifting your perspective and walk in greater boldness today:

  1. Change your prayer.
    Instead of asking, “God, take this away,” try asking, “Lord, walk me through it. Show me Your strength in this.” Ask for boldness instead of comfort.
  2. Invite the Holy Spirit daily.
    Before you start your day, invite Him to give you wisdom, courage, and the right words to say. He is your Helper, and He is eager to partner with you.
  3. Tune into His voice.
    Pay attention to those little nudges like the people you feel prompted to encourage, the moments when you feel peace stepping into a conversation about your faith. That’s Him.
  4. Stop disqualifying yourself.
    You don’t need to feel ready or perfect. You just need to be available and move forward. Ask for boldness to take the next step in what God has called you to do.
  5. Expect God to move.
    Just like the room where the disciples prayed was shaken, your world can be too. When you pray for boldness and step out in faith, expect God to show up.

Today, I want to encourage you to stop asking only for the pain to go away and start asking for boldness to keep moving forward in the middle of it. Don’t let the enemy distract you with discomfort or doubt. The battle may not go away overnight, but the Holy Spirit will strengthen you to walk through it with power, courage, and purpose.

The disciples didn’t pray for ease, they prayed for effectiveness. And as a result, they turned the world upside down (Acts 17:6).

So, what about you? Will you pray for boldness? Will you shift your focus from comfort to calling? God has a plan to get you through every trial and every struggle. He designed you to make an eternal impact along the way.

Let your prayer today be:
“Lord, grant me boldness to speak Your Word, to live out my faith, and to stand firm in Your truth, no matter what I face.”

And when you do, just like the early church, others will see that you’ve been with Jesus, and your life will transform the world around you.

Today’s scripture reading: Acts 4:23-31

23 And being let go, they went to their own companions and reported all that the chief priests and elders had said to them.

24 So when they heard that, they raised their voice to God with one accord and said: “Lord, You are God, who made heaven and earth and the sea, and all that is in them,

25 who by the mouth of Your servant David have said: ‘Why did the nations rage, and the people plot vain things?

26 The kings of the earth took their stand,

And the rulers were gathered together against the Lord and against His Christ.’

27 “For truly against Your holy Servant Jesus, whom You anointed, both Herod and Pontius Pilate, with the Gentiles and the people of Israel, were gathered together

28 to do whatever Your hand and Your purpose determined before to be done.

29 Now, Lord, look on their threats, and grant to Your servants that with all boldness they may speak Your word,

30 by stretching out Your hand to heal, and that signs and wonders may be done through the name of Your holy Servant Jesus.”

31 And when they had prayed, the place where they were assembled together was shaken; and they were all filled with the Holy Spirit, and they spoke the word of God with boldness.

From the Daily Dose Journal Series

They had been with Jesus

Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, and perceived that they were uneducated and untrained men, they marveled. And they realized that they had been with Jesus. ~ Acts 4:13

This passage is one of the most encouraging in all of Scripture, especially for anyone who has ever felt unqualified, overlooked, or underprepared to contribute to God’s plans and kingdom progress. Maybe you haven’t had the opportunity for a college education, formal ministry training, or a Bible school degree, and because of that, you’ve questioned whether God truly has a significant role in this life for you. If so, don’t be discouraged because you’re in great company.

In today’s scripture passage, Peter and John, bold and confident in front of religious leaders, were not speaking from years of scholarly training or polished credentials. Instead, what stood out about them and what astonished the people, was that it was obvious they had been with Jesus.

That’s the real qualification and the only thing you need to be a leader in His mission and purpose.

The reason this passage inspires me so deeply is because I, too, haven’t had much formal training beyond high school, aside from courses required for certain jobs. I never went to Bible college or earned a degree in theology. Most of what I’ve learned and now write has come through spending time in God’s presence by reading His Word, listening for His voice in my heart, and letting the Holy Spirit shape me day by day.

It’s in those quiet moments with Jesus that I receive the encouragement, wisdom, and revelation I need. That’s what fuels my writing. That’s what strengthens me to lead others. My hope and prayer is that, just like Peter and John, people would look at my life and recognize: she’s been with Jesus.

There are still moments I feel unqualified for the things God has called me to. But I’ve learned not to focus on what I think I lack, like education, credentials, experience. Instead, I determine to keep my focus on Who I belong to. Every day, I choose to walk the path with the assignments He places in front of me.

What about you? Have you ever disqualified yourself from being a vessel of God because you didn’t feel smart enough, trained enough, or confident enough? If so, be encouraged: what qualifies you isn’t your résumé, it’s your relationship with Jesus.

You don’t have to be a scholar to share the hope of the Gospel. You don’t need to have all the answers to start making an impact. What you do need is time with Him. Spend time in His Word. Talk with Him in prayer. Let His truth shape your thinking and His love transform your heart.

When you follow close to the plan, you will need to be aware that the enemy will always try to steal your joy and contentment. He’ll whisper lies that you’re not good enough or ready enough. He’ll point to your past or your lack of credentials and try to disqualify you before you even begin. But don’t let him. Combat those lies with the truth of Scripture. Remember what happened with Peter and John, who were untrained and unqualified in the world’s eyes, but empowered and unstoppable in God’s.

Here are some things you can do to get started:

  • Make time daily for Jesus. Read a chapter of Scripture. Talk to Him like a friend. Ask Him to teach and lead you.
  • Write down what you hear or learn. Keep a journal of your conversations with God.
  • Say yes to small assignments. Be faithful with what He places in your hands today, and He will open more doors tomorrow.
  • Surround yourself with encouragement. Listen to Bible-based podcasts or teachings that fuel your faith.
  • Speak truth over yourself. Remind yourself: I have been with Jesus. I am equipped. I am called.

Today, be encouraged: you don’t have to “arrive” before God can use you. Just keep showing up in His presence, and watch how He fills your life with boldness, clarity, and purpose.

Before long, others will look at you, not because of your degrees or achievements, but because of your love, your peace, and your strength. That’s when they’ll say the same thing: “They’ve been with Jesus.”

Today’s scripture reading: Acts 4:13-22

13 Now when they saw the boldness of Peter and John, and perceived that they were uneducated and untrained men, they marveled. And they realized that they had been with Jesus.

14 And seeing the man who had been healed standing with them, they could say nothing against it.

15 But when they had commanded them to go aside out of the council, they conferred among themselves,

16 saying, “What shall we do to these men? For, indeed, that a notable miracle has been done through them is evident to all who dwell in Jerusalem, and we cannot deny it.

17 But so that it spreads no further among the people, let us severely threaten them, that from now on they speak to no man in this name.”

18 So they called them and commanded them not to speak at all nor teach in the name of Jesus.

19 But Peter and John answered and said to them, “Whether it is right in the sight of God to listen to you more than to God, you judge.

20 For we cannot but speak the things which we have seen and heard.”

21 So when they had further threatened them, they let them go, finding no way of punishing them, because of the people, since they all glorified God for what had been done.

22 For the man was over forty years old on whom this miracle of healing had been performed.

Ecclesiastes 6

When Blessings Don’t Feel Like Enough

A man to whom God has given riches and wealth and honor, so that he lacks nothing for himself of all he desires; yet God does not give him power to eat of it, but a foreigner consumes it. This is vanity, and it is an evil affliction. ~ Ecclesiastes 6:2

Have you ever looked around at your life at your home, your job, your family, all the things God has blessed you with and wondered why you still feel like something is missing? It’s not that you’re ungrateful. You know God has been good. But somehow, your soul still stirs with questions, longings, or quiet dissatisfaction. If you’ve felt that tension, you’re not alone and you’re not broken, there is hope. Ecclesiastes 6 speaks directly to this wrestling match between having much and feeling full.

This truth really speaks to me today. My life is extremely blessed, and I genuinely rely on God’s presence throughout my day. However, when I honestly evaluate my contentment and fulfillment in life, I still find myself struggling with discontent. I never fully realized it until just now, but the enemy is always working to snatch that contentment right out of my grasp, and more often than not, he succeeds. Despite all that God has seen me through and the countless ways He has poured out His blessings, I still face daily moments of doubt when I question if I said or did the right thing, second-guessing decisions, or even comparing myself to others through what I see on social media.

Ecclesiastes 6 paints a vivid picture of a person who seems to have it all, like wealth, honor, long life, but lacks the ability to enjoy any of it. What a sobering thought: to receive every outward blessing but miss the inward fulfillment of it. The wisdom of this chapter reminds us that the gift of contentment and the joy in the journey is something only God can give. It doesn’t come from acquiring more; it comes from receiving more of Him.

So my question today is how do I keep my contentment and joy when I now know that my enemy is constantly trying to steal it from me?  Here are a few suggestion to help if you find yourself asking this same question:

  • Start with gratitude: Every morning, name three things you’re thankful for. Don’t just rush through them. Let your heart sit in the reality of God’s goodness.
  • Recognize the enemy’s tactics: The enemy is constantly trying to steal your joy and contentment through distraction, doubt, comparison, and fear. Combat this by filling your mind with the truth of God’s Word, speak His promises out loud, and refuse to dwell on lies your enemy is pushing. Use those feeling of discontent as a reminder to speak God’s Word over your life instead. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you ~James 4:7.
  • Slow down your scroll: Social media often fuels the fire of discontent. Take a break or set limits to reclaim your peace of mind.
  • Ask God for joy in the moment: Instead of striving for “the next thing,” ask Him to help you enjoy what’s already in your hands.
  • Keep a journal of contentment: Each evening, take time to reflect on your day and jot down where you saw God’s faithfulness or provision, even in the small things.

You can get started on this today by simply pausing to ask for help and pray, “Lord, help me to receive what You’ve given with a grateful heart. Teach me to enjoy the gifts, not just chase after them.”

Ecclesiastes 6 ends with a question: “For who knows what is good for a man in life…?” (v.12). The answer is simple but profound, God does. He knows what satisfies the soul. He knows how to quiet the restlessness. He also invites us not just to a life of blessing, but to a life of enjoying those blessings with Him.

Today I want to encourage you to remember to let God teach you the beauty of enough. Don’t let the enemy steal your joy by feeding you the lie that something is missing. When God is the source of your satisfaction, you’ll no longer chase fulfillment in the things this world offers.  Instead, you’ll just live in it every day.

You may not be able to control what you have or don’t have, but you can choose how you live with what you’ve been given. When you choose joy, gratitude, and trust in God, that’s when you truly begin to live.

                                                                                                            Lynette Lyden

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 6

1 There is an evil which I have seen under the sun, and it is common among men:

2 A man to whom God has given riches and wealth and honor, so that he lacks nothing for himself of all he desires; yet God does not give him power to eat of it, but a foreigner consumes it. This is vanity, and it is an evil affliction.

3 If a man begets a hundred children and lives many years, so that the days of his years are many, but his soul is not satisfied with goodness, or indeed he has no burial, I say that a stillborn child is better than he.

4 for it comes in vanity and departs in darkness, and its name is covered with darkness.

5 Though it has not seen the sun or known anything, this has more rest than that man,

6 even if he lives a thousand years twice—but has not seen goodness. Do not all go to one place?

7 All the labor of man is for his mouth, and yet the soul is not satisfied.

8 For what more has the wise man than the fool? What does the poor man have, who knows how to walk before the living?

9 Better is the sight of the eyes than the wandering of desire. This also is vanity and grasping for the wind.

10 Whatever one is, he has been named already, for it is known that he is man; And he cannot contend with Him who is mightier than he.

11 Since there are many things that increase vanity, how is man the better?

12 For who knows what is good for man in life, all the days of his vain life which he passes like a shadow? Who can tell a man what will happen after him under the sun?

Ecclesiastes 5:8-20

You will Never Work Another Day of Your Life

For he will not dwell unduly on the days of his life, because God keeps him busy with the joy of his heart. ~ Ecclesiastes 5:20

There’s a common saying you may have heard that goes like this: “If you find a job doing something you love, you will never work another day in your life.” The idea behind this statement is that when you are employed doing what you are passionate about, especially when it lines up with your God-given talents and purpose, it doesn’t feel like labor, but rather a joyful expression of who you are meant to be.

Examples of this idea can be seen in musicians who live to create music, in writers who find joy in crafting words, and in teachers who have a heart for shaping young minds. In my case, I get to work in ministry, which often feels like an extension of worship. I get to go to church every day, which is what I love to do and love and encourage others. (Also what I love to do.)

The scripture passage today presents a deeper perspective on work, wealth, and fulfillment. The writer reminds us that striving for riches alone is meaningless, for those who love money will never have enough. He warns against the endless pursuit of wealth, noting that it often leads to worry, restlessness, and dissatisfaction. Instead, he highlights the gift of God: to enjoy one’s work and the simple blessings of life. True satisfaction is not found in accumulating wealth but in recognizing that everything we have is from God and is to be enjoyed with a heart of gratitude.

Here are some ideas you can consider for putting this passage into action in your personal situation:

  1. Find Joy in Your Work – Whatever your job may be, ask God to help you see it as an opportunity to serve Him and others. Approach each day with a mindset of gratitude rather than obligation.
  2. Avoid Chasing Wealth as an End Goal – Money itself is not evil, but when it becomes the main focus of life, it leads to emptiness. Work hard and be responsible, but don’t let how much you make or material possessions define your purpose or happiness.
  3. Recognize God as the Source of Your Blessings – Instead of constantly striving for more, take time to enjoy what you already have. Contentment comes from acknowledging that all good things come from God.
  4. Embrace Rest and Gratitude – Don’t let work consume your life. Make space for rest, family, and moments that bring joy. Celebrate the small blessings that God has given you.

Here is how you can begin today:

  • Start by shifting your perspective on work. Instead of seeing it as a burden, Ask God to show you your purpose in your current role and how you represent Him each day.
  • Ask Him for wisdom on how to balance ambition with contentment.
  • Each day, take a moment to thank God for the ability to work, for the provision He has given, and for the joy He wants to bring into your life.

Today I want to encourage you to remember that wealth and work, when pursued apart from God, will only lead to emptiness. But when you acknowledge Him as the source of your provision and embrace the joy He gives, work becomes more than just a job, it becomes a calling and an opportunity to honor Him. True fulfillment is not found in the size of a paycheck, but in the contentment of knowing that God keeps us busy with the joy of our hearts. Whether you love your job or find it difficult, remember that God has placed you there for a reason. Trust Him, seek Him, and embrace the joy that He provides in all seasons of life.

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 5:8-20

8 If you see the oppression of the poor, and the violent perversion of justice and righteousness in a province, do not marvel at the matter; for high official watches over high official, and higher officials are over them.

9 Moreover the profit of the land is for all; even the king is served from the field.

10 He who loves silver will not be satisfied with silver; Nor he who loves abundance, with increase. This also is vanity.

11 When goods increase, they increase who eat them; So what profit have the owners except to see them with their eyes?

12 The sleep of a laboring man is sweet, whether he eats little or much; But the abundance of the rich will not permit him to sleep.

13 There is a severe evil which I have seen under the sun: Riches kept for their owner to his hurt.

14 But those riches perish through misfortune; When he begets a son, there is nothing in his hand.

15 As he came from his mother’s womb, naked shall he return, to go as he came; And he shall take nothing from his labor which he may carry away in his hand.

16 And this also is a severe evil, just exactly as he came, so shall he go. And what profit has he who has labored for the wind?

17 All his days he also eats in darkness, and he has much sorrow and sickness and anger.

18 Here is what I have seen: It is good and fitting for one to eat and drink, and to enjoy the good of all his labor in which he toils under the sun all the days of his life which God gives him; for it is his heritage.

19 As for every man to whom God has given riches and wealth, and given him power to eat of it, to receive his heritage and rejoice in his labor—this is the gift of God.

20 For he will not dwell unduly on the days of his life, because God keeps him busy with the joy of his heart.

Ecclesiastes 5:1-7

Let my words be few

Do not be rash with your mouth, and let not your heart utter anything hastily before God. For God is in heaven, and you on earth; Therefore let your words be few. ~ Ecclesiastes 5:2

Sometimes it’s hard to remember the power of silence, but I try to be a person of few words, except when it comes to sharing the amazing things the Lord has done in my life. Even then, I don’t want to be someone who dumps it on, without thought, or pours out words that are not asked for, sometime I just say too much.

Ecclesiastes 5 reminds us to approach God with reverence, especially in our words. Too often, we speak hastily, whether in prayer, in promises, or in everyday conversations, without truly considering the weight of what we say. The writer of Ecclesiastes warns against making careless vows to God, reminding us that He takes our words seriously.

In today’s world, where social media, instant messaging, and constant communication encourage us to share every thought, this passage is a call to wisdom. Before speaking, we should ask ourselves: Is what I’m about to say honoring to God? Is it necessary? Is it spoken with humility and truth? Our words carry weight, and once spoken, they cannot be taken back.  It is wise to consider thoroughly before you post or if you need to post at all.

Below are some practical things to consider to keep from offering too much information:

  1. Pause Before You Speak – Take a moment to think before responding in conversations, especially in moments of frustration or excitement. Ask yourself if your words are necessary and edifying.
  2. Be Mindful in Prayer – Approach God with reverence. Rather than rushing through prayer with empty words, be intentional and let your heart be still before Him.
  3. Keep Your Promises – If you commit to something, follow through. Be careful not to make commitments you cannot keep, especially before God.
  4. Use Fewer Words with More Meaning – Instead of filling silence with unnecessary chatter, choose words that bring encouragement, wisdom, and truth.

Here are some ways you can begin to work on this today:

  • Begin by asking God for wisdom in your speech.
  • Pray for a heart that listens before it speaks and for the discipline to use words wisely.
  • Read through Proverbs and Ecclesiastes for more insights on the power of speech.
  • Practice being more intentional in your conversations.

Today I want to encourage you to remember remember that God values our words and calls us to use them carefully. Ecclesiastes 5:2 reminds us of the importance of speaking with thoughtfulness and reverence, especially before God. In a world where words are often thrown around carelessly, choosing to speak with wisdom, restraint, and sincerity sets us apart. Let’s strive to be people whose words are few but filled with meaning and honoring God and bringing life to those around us.

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 5:1-7

1 Walk prudently when you go to the house of God; and draw near to hear rather than to give the sacrifice of fools, for they do not know that they do evil.

2 Do not be rash with your mouth, and let not your heart utter anything hastily before God. For God is in heaven, and you on earth; Therefore let your words be few.

3 For a dream comes through much activity, and a fool’s voice is known by his many words.

4 When you make a vow to God, do not delay to pay it; For He has no pleasure in fools. Pay what you have vowed—

5 Better not to vow than to vow and not pay.

6 Do not let your mouth cause your flesh to sin, nor say before the messenger of God that it was an error. Why should God be angry at your excuse and destroy the work of your hands?

7 For in the multitude of dreams and many words there is also vanity. But fear God.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-16

Lonely

For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. but woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up. ~ Ecclesiastes 4:10

I’ve had my share of lonely seasons in life. Times when relationships didn’t work out and times when I moved away from everyone I knew to start something new. In those moments, I relied on God’s grace to get me through. His grace is always enough for whatever we face, but even so, it isn’t His best for us to walk through life alone.

From the very beginning of time, God created us to be in relationships. When He established the first marriage, He said that it was not good for people to be alone (Genesis 2:18). We were designed to live in community. Without companionship, we lack accountability, encouragement, and support. As today’s key verse points out, when we stumble, whether it’s physically, emotionally, or spiritually, we need others to help us get back up on our feet.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-16 reminds us of the power and beauty of companionship. Two people working together can accomplish more than one alone. When challenges arise, having someone by your side provides strength and resilience. Relationships also bring warmth and comfort in difficult seasons. And when we stand together, we are stronger, like a threefold cord that cannot be easily broken.

Even the most independent people benefit from the encouragement and accountability that godly relationships provide. Scripture highlights the importance of wise counsel and supportive companionship, warning us against the pride and stubbornness that can arise from isolation (Proverbs 18:1).

If you find yourself in a season of loneliness or isolation, there are practical steps you can take to cultivate meaningful connections:

  1. Seek Out Community: Join a local church, small group, or Bible study. Being part of a faith-based community offers support, encouragement, and spiritual growth.
  2. Be Vulnerable: Open up to trusted friends or mentors. Authentic relationships are built on honesty and transparency.
  3. Offer Support to Others: Sometimes the best way to find companionship is by being a friend to someone else. Look for opportunities to serve and encourage others.
  4. Pray for Godly Relationships: Ask God to bring people into your life who will encourage you, challenge you, and walk alongside you in faith.
  5. Stay Connected: Make time for regular conversations, whether through phone calls, video chats, or in-person meetings. Consistent connection strengthens relationships.

Here are some suggestions of how you can get started connecting with others even as early as today.

  • Evaluate Your Relationships: Take a moment to reflect on the people in your life. Are there relationships you need to invest in? Are there areas where you need to step out of your comfort zone and build new connections?
  • Make the First Move: Reach out to someone today. It could be a simple text to check in, a coffee invitation, or a prayerful note of encouragement.
  • Trust God’s Timing: Building meaningful relationships takes time. Be patient and faithful, knowing that God will provide the right people at the right time.

Today I want to encourage you to remember that loneliness is not God’s design for us. While there may be times when we walk through difficult seasons alone, we are never truly without support. God is with us, and He often works through the people He places in our lives. Just as Ecclesiastes 4:10 reminds us, companionship brings strength, comfort, and resilience.

So, take that step today. Seek out community, nurture your relationships, and be the friend who lifts others up. By doing this, you will experience the joy of walking through life together, stronger, encouraged, and never alone.

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 4:9-16

9 Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor.

10 For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, for he has no one to help him up.

11 Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; But how can one be warm alone?

12 Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.

13 Better a poor and wise youth than an old and foolish king who will be admonished no more.

14 For he comes out of prison to be king, although he was born poor in his kingdom.

15 I saw all the living who walk under the sun; They were with the second youth who stands in his place.

16 There was no end of all the people over whom he was made king; Yet those who come afterward will not rejoice in him. Surely this also is vanity and grasping for the wind.

Ecclesiastes 4:1-8

Handful of quietness

Better a handful with quietness than both hands full, together with toil and grasping for the wind. ~ Ecclesiastes 4:6

Have you ever been in the presence of people who seemed to have everything, yet their words and actions were filled with bitterness and criticism? Maybe its a couple who constantly nitpick at each other or a family whose conversations are laced with tension. It’s unsettling and leaves you wishing you could say, “Stop! What are you doing?” The truth is no amount of material wealth can bring peace without words of kindness and gentleness.

Ecclesiastes 4:6 reminds us that it is better to have a little with peace than to have abundance with constant striving and conflict. A handful with quietness symbolizes contentment,  a restful heart that finds joy in what it has instead of constantly trying to get more. The relentless pursuit of wealth or status often leaves people drained and disconnected from what truly matters in life.

Maybe you’ve experienced moments when your own desire for more has caused stress or strained your relationships. It’s easy to get caught up in the world’s message that success is defined by how much you accumulate. But the Bible offers a different perspective: true fulfillment comes from contentment and the peace that flows from a thankful heart.

To apply this principle in your own life, start by evaluating what truly brings you joy and fulfillment. Ask yourself:

  • Are there areas where I am striving unnecessarily?
  • Have my pursuits negatively affected my relationships or peace of mind?
  • What simple joys am I overlooking in my life right now?

Consider simplifying your commitments and possessions. You might choose to declutter your home, reduce the number of activities that exhaust your time, or even reevaluate financial goals that may be causing undue stress. Embrace moments of rest and create space to enjoy time with loved ones, engage in prayer, or simply appreciate God’s blessings.

Here are some suggestions to help you get started.

  • Practice Gratitude: Each day, write down three things you’re thankful for. Gratitude shifts our focus from what we lack to what we have.
  • Set Boundaries: Learn to say no to commitments that don’t line up with your values or that drain your energy.
  • Prioritize Relationships: Invest time in meaningful connections. Put down your devices, have conversations, and be fully present.
  • Embrace Sabbath Rest: Set aside time for rest and spiritual renewal. Trust that God’s provision is enough.  Your body was created to rest one day a week.  Give yourself that time to slow down and focus on what is most important in your life.

Today I want to encourage you to remember that choosing a handful of quietness over the relentless pursuit of more is a courageous act of faith. It’s trusting that God’s provision is sufficient and that joy is found not in abundance, but in contentment. As you step into this way of living, you’ll experience the beauty of peaceful moments, stronger relationships, and a heart at rest.

Remember the words of Ecclesiastes 4:6. Let them guide you as you pursue a life marked not by striving, but by serenity. In doing so, you will live in God’s peace and experience the deep fulfillment that comes from a content and thankful heart.

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 4:1-8

1 Then I returned and considered all the oppression that is done under the sun: And look! The tears of the oppressed, but they have no comforter— On the side of their oppressors there is power, but they have no comforter.

2 Therefore I praised the dead who were already dead, more than the living who are still alive.

3 Yet, better than both is he who has never existed, who has not seen the evil work that is done under the sun.

4 Again, I saw that for all toil and every skillful work a man is envied by his neighbor. This also is vanity and grasping for the wind.

5 The fool folds his hands and consumes his own flesh.

6 Better a handful with quietness than both hands full, together with toil and grasping for the wind.

7 Then I returned, and I saw vanity under the sun:

8 There is one alone, without companion: He has neither son nor brother. Yet there is no end to all his labors, nor is his eye satisfied with riches. But he never asks, “For whom do I toil and deprive myself of good?” This also is vanity and a grave misfortune.