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Forgive

But Jesus said to him, “Friend, why have you come?” Then they came and laid hands on Jesus and took Him.  Matthew 26:50

Forgiveness is one of the most powerful expressions of God’s love—and one of the most challenging things we are called to do. In this moment from Matthew 26, Jesus knew Judas had come to betray Him. And yet, He looked him in the eye and called him “friend.” What unbelievable restraint. What indescribable grace. Jesus didn’t lash out, condemn, or even expose Judas in front of the others. Instead, He responded with love. Why? Because forgiveness was already in His heart.

Jesus’ whole ministry was defined by forgiveness. He healed the broken, restored the outcast, and offered mercy to sinners long before the cross. But it was on the cross that He paid the ultimate price for our sin. The forgiveness that He lived out became the forgiveness that covers all of humanity, and yet, that gift has to be received. It’s not automatic. It’s personal. Just as we choose to receive His forgiveness, we also must choose to extend it.

Forgiveness is not easy. In fact, in our own strength, it’s often impossible. But we don’t have to do it alone. God gave us the ability to forgive when He placed His Spirit and His love on the inside of us. Forgiveness isn’t forgetting. It’s not pretending nothing happened. It’s choosing to release the debt someone owes you and handing it over to God. It’s trusting that His justice is perfect and His love is greater.

Here are some steps you can take to get started:

1. Receive God’s forgiveness fully. Remind yourself daily that your sins, past, present, and future, are covered by Jesus’ blood. When you truly grasp that, it becomes easier to offer grace to others.
2. Decide in advance to forgive. Don’t wait until offense comes. Make forgiveness a preset in your heart. Ask the Lord to help you develop a posture of mercy.
3. Pray for those who hurt you. This is hard but transformative. Ask God to bless them, heal them, and reveal His love to them. Prayer softens your heart and strengthens your spirit.
4. Speak it out. Say aloud, “I forgive [name] for [offense]. I release them to God.” Hearing yourself declare forgiveness can break spiritual strongholds.
5. Repeat as needed. Forgiveness is often a process. If the pain resurfaces, keep releasing it to God. It’s not weakness, it’s faithfulness.

When we look at today’s passage, we see more than betrayal. We see Jesus demonstrating His love in the face of heartbreak. We see power under control. And we see the choice to forgive, not just to fulfill prophecy, but to model the very heart of God.

Today I want to encourage you to remember that forgiveness is not about denying pain, but it’s about breaking the chains that pain wants to place on you. Jesus showed us that even when betrayal is fresh, love can still lead. When you choose to forgive, you look more like Jesus than almost any other moment in your life. Just like Him, your choice to forgive will lead to freedom and not only for the one who hurt you, but for you, also.

Let the love of Christ Jesus move you to receive His forgiveness fully and then give it freely. This is the heart of the Gospel. This is the power of the cross.

Today’s scripture reading: Matthew 26:47-56

47 And even as Jesus said this, Judas, one of the twelve disciples, arrived with a crowd of men armed with swords and clubs. They had been sent by the leading priests and elders of the people.

48 The traitor, Judas, had given them a prearranged signal: “You will know which one to arrest when I greet him with a kiss.”

49 So Judas came straight to Jesus. “Greetings, Rabbi!” he exclaimed and gave him the kiss.

50 Jesus said, “My friend, go ahead and do what you have come for.” Then the others grabbed Jesus and arrested him.

51 But one of the men with Jesus pulled out his sword and struck the high priest’s slave, slashing off his ear.

52 “Put away your sword,” Jesus told him. “Those who use the sword will die by the sword.

53 Don’t you realize that I could ask my Father for thousands of angels to protect us, and he would send them instantly?

54 But if I did, how would the Scriptures be fulfilled that describe what must happen now?”

55 Then Jesus said to the crowd, “Am I some dangerous revolutionary, that you come with swords and clubs to arrest me? Why didn’t you arrest me in the Temple? I was there teaching every day.

56 But this is all happening to fulfill the words of the prophets as recorded in the Scriptures.” At that point, all the disciples deserted him and fled.

Resurrection Week

Since we’re coming up on Easter Sunday, I thought it would be fitting to spend this week reflecting on and remembering the events that took place in Jesus’ ministry leading up to His crucifixion.

I know we honor and thank Him all year long, but I want to invite you to go a step further this week and take some intentional time to ask the Holy Spirit for fresh revelation and a deeper appreciation for all that the Lord has done to give us life through His blood and restore us to right relationship with our Father in heaven.

Sweet hour of Pray

Then He came to the disciples and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, “What! Could you not watch with Me one hour? Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” ~ Matthew 26:40-41

This one hits close to home.

If I’m honest, I’m pretty sure I would’ve done exactly what the disciples did that night in Gethsemane. They had just shared a profound moment with Jesus during the Last Supper, heard Him speak deep truths about the future, and now they were back in a familiar place, the garden where they had likely spent many peaceful nights before. It would’ve seemed like time to wind down and rest. But this night was different.

Jesus, fully aware of what was coming with His betrayal, arrest, torture, and crucifixion, was under immense pressure. He was in agony, so deeply distressed that He told His closest friends, “My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death.” And He asked them for something simple but powerful: “Stay here and watch with Me.”

He wasn’t asking them to fix anything or pray elaborate prayers. He just wanted them to stay close. To keep watch. To be present in the moment of His suffering. He carried the weight of the world, and all He asked for was their support in prayer.

But instead, they fell asleep.

I don’t share this to judge the disciples because I totally get it. I’ve been there. I’ve had moments where I wanted to pray longer, where my spirit felt the pull toward God, but my body gave out. I’ve sat down to spend time with Him and found my thoughts drifting or my eyes getting heavy. Life gets noisy. The flesh is loud. The to-do list feels urgent. Before I know it, I’m distracted or done before I really even got started.

But then I remember those sweet moments when I did press in, when I made time for an actual hour of prayer. I used to discipline myself to pray in the Spirit for one hour every morning. Most days it wasn’t easy to begin with, but oh, how worth it it was. There was something about getting past the 45-minute mark, almost like breaking through a fog. Now I know that it was when my flesh finally surrendered, and then suddenly, clarity would come. Peace would settle in. Answers would rise to the surface. God’s presence felt so close and so strong. I can’t fully explain it, but I’ve lived it. And I still long for more of it.

Jesus’ words ring so true:
“The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

The hour of prayer isn’t just about endurance. It’s about breaking through the wall of the flesh so the spirit can truly take the lead. It’s not a punishment, but rather it’s a pathway to deeper intimacy with the Father.

You don’t have to become a prayer warrior overnight. Jesus isn’t giving us a guilt trip here—He’s extending an invitation. He is calling us to come closer and go deeper with Him. Here are some ways to grow into it:

1. Start Small but Be Consistent

Set aside 10–15 minutes a day to begin. Use that time to be quiet before the Lord, pray from your heart, read Scripture, and listen. As you get comfortable, increase your time gradually.

2. Create a Prayer Flow

Here’s a simple guide to structure your hour (or however long you have):

• 5–10 mins: Worship (with a song or quiet gratitude)
• 10–15 mins: Scripture reading and meditation
• 10 mins: Praying for others (intercession)
• 15–20 mins: Personal prayer (requests, repentance, listening)
• Final 5–10 mins: Sitting silently in His presence to hear in your heart what He wants to say in this time.

3. Use Tools to Stay Engaged

Prayer journals, worship playlists, guided devotionals, or prayer apps can help focus your mind and keep you present. Write down what God speaks to your heart.

4. Make It a Special Appointment

Find a time and place where you can be uninterrupted. Turn off notifications. Set a calendar reminder. Protect that time like you would any important meeting, because that’s what it is.

5. Give Yourself Grace

Some days will be easier than others. The point is not perfection, it’s presence. Keep showing up. Even when it feels dry or difficult, God honors your desire to be near and meets you where you are.

From Gethsemane to Glory: The Power of Presence

That night in the garden wasn’t just about Jesus’ suffering. It was also about the invitation He gave to His friends to share in His moment of vulnerability, to be near Him when He needed them most. That same invitation is open to us today.

Can you stay with Him? Can you watch and pray? Not because you have to, but because you get to?

Prayer is not a checkbox or a burden. It’s the privilege and an honor of being in the presence of the living God. It’s the space where heaven meets earth, where your soul is strengthened, and where your perspective is transformed.

Here’s the powerful part: Prayer prepares you for what’s ahead. The disciples fell asleep, and shortly after, they scattered. But Jesus, strengthened by His time with the Father, stood up from the garden with peace and resolve. He knew the cross was coming, but He was ready.

So today, I want to encourage you to accept the invitation to make space for the sweet hour of prayer, whether you’re at 10 minutes or 60. Ask the Holy Spirit to help your spirit rise above your flesh. Linger. Watch and stay close to Jesus.

Because that garden moment wasn’t just about the disciples, it’s about you too. It’s about every believer who’s ever struggled to stay awake spiritually but still longs to draw near.

The spirit is willing and with His help, the flesh doesn’t have to win.

So don’t be discouraged if it’s hard at first. Keep showing up. Keep leaning in. You’re not just praying, you’re preparing. You’re not just spending time, you’re being transformed.

Just like Jesus walked out of the garden ready for the cross, you’ll walk out of your prayer time ready for the battles and victories of life, with peace, power, and the presence of the One who meets you there.

“Could you not watch with Me one hour?”

Yes, Lord. We can, and with Your help, we will.

Today’s scripture reading: Matthew 26:31-46

31 Then Jesus said to them, “All of you will be made to stumble because of Me this night, for it is written: ‘I will strike the Shepherd, and the sheep of the flock will be scattered.’

32 But after I have been raised, I will go before you to Galilee.”

33 Peter answered and said to Him, “Even if all are made to stumble because of You, I will never be made to stumble.”

34 Jesus said to him, “Assuredly, I say to you that this night, before the rooster crows, you will deny Me three times.”

35 Peter said to Him, “Even if I have to die with You, I will not deny You!” And so said all the disciples.

36 Then Jesus came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and said to the disciples, “Sit here while I go and pray over there.”

37 And He took with Him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and He began to be sorrowful and deeply distressed.

38 Then He said to them, “My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death. Stay here and watch with Me.”

39 He went a little farther and fell on His face, and prayed, saying, “O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will.”

40 Then He came to the disciples and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, “What! Could you not watch with Me one hour?

41 Watch and pray, lest you enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

42 Again, a second time, He went away and prayed, saying, “O My Father, if this cup cannot pass away from Me unless I drink it, Your will be done.”

43 And He came and found them asleep again, for their eyes were heavy.

44 So He left them, went away again, and prayed the third time, saying the same words.

45 Then He came to His disciples and said to them, “Are you still sleeping and resting? Behold, the hour is at hand, and the Son of Man is being betrayed into the hands of sinners.

46 Rise, let us be going. See, My betrayer is at hand.”

Check your heart

_{While it remained, was it not your own? And after it was sold, was it not in your own control? Why have you conceived this thing in your heart? You have not lied to men but to God.” Acts 5:4}

Today’s reading is one of the most sobering passages in the New Testament. The story of Ananias and Sapphira isn’t just about giving money, it’s about the motives of the heart.

Ananias and Sapphira sold a piece of property, which in itself was commendable. The problem wasn’t that they kept a portion of the money, it was that they pretended to give all of it in an attempt to gain spiritual recognition. Their deception wasn’t just about money, it was about position, pride, and the pretense of being more generous than they actually were. Their sin was not the amount they gave but the lie they told to elevate their image before people, while thinking God wouldn’t notice.

Peter, filled with the Holy Spirit, discerned their dishonesty. He reminded Ananias that the land and money was theirs to begin with and that it wasn’t about control; it was about integrity. And then Peter delivered the piercing truth: “You have not lied to men, but to God.”

That’s a powerful reminder: we may be able to fool people, but we cannot fool God. He sees past the words, past the performance, past the mask and straight into the heart.

We may not face the same immediate consequences as Ananias and Sapphira, but spiritual deception and hypocrisy still have damaging effects. Lies, even the subtle ones we tell ourselves or the image we try to project, slowly erode our character and distance us from intimacy with God.

Here are a few practical ways to “check your heart” every day:

1. Ask Yourself the Hard Questions
   • Why am I doing this?
   • Am I trying to impress others or truly serve God?
   • Am I being honest in my words, actions, and attitudes?
2. Practice Confession Daily
   Take time in prayer each day to invite the Holy Spirit to search your heart. If something is off, confess it immediately. Repentance isn’t condemnation, it’s a gift of grace that restores our connection with God.
3. Guard Against Comparison and Jealousy
   Much like Ananias and Sapphira saw the praise Barnabas received, it’s easy to get caught up in comparing our lives with others. That mindset opens the door for pride, jealousy, and dishonesty. Celebrate others’ wins without making it about you.
4. Pursue Integrity in the Small Things
   Honesty begins in the quiet corners of life: taxes, timecards, conversations, and intentions. Living with integrity in the small things builds a heart that pleases God.
5. Let the Holy Spirit Be Your Guide
   Invite Him to help you recognize when you’re drifting toward pride or pretending. He’s not here to shame you. He’s here to lead you into truth and freedom.

This story isn’t just a cautionary one, it’s a loving invitation to live in genuine authenticity with God. The Holy Spirit didn’t reveal Ananias and Sapphira’s lie to embarrass them, but to confront what was keeping them from fully walking in truth. They had an opportunity to confess and be restored, but they chose the lie instead.

Today I want to encourage you to bring your real self before God, without filters or façades. He already sees it all and still welcomes you with grace and truth. So check your heart today and let God search it. When He reveals something, don’t run or cover it, bring it into the light.

He’s not after perfection, He’s after truth. When you bring your heart into agreement with His, there’s no greater peace, purpose, or power.

Today’s scripture reading: Acts 5:1-11

1 But a certain man named Ananias, with Sapphira his wife, sold a possession.

2 And he kept back part of the proceeds, his wife also being aware of it, and brought a certain part and laid it at the apostles’ feet.

3 But Peter said, “Ananias, why has Satan filled your heart to lie to the Holy Spirit and keep back part of the price of the land for yourself?

4 While it remained, was it not your own? And after it was sold, was it not in your own control? Why have you conceived this thing in your heart? You have not lied to men but to God.”

5 Then Ananias, hearing these words, fell down and breathed his last. So great fear came upon all those who heard these things.

6 And the young men arose and wrapped him up, carried him out, and buried him.

7 Now it was about three hours later when his wife came in, not knowing what had happened.

8 And Peter answered her, “Tell me whether you sold the land for so much?”

She said, “Yes, for so much.”

9 Then Peter said to her, “How is it that you have agreed together to test the Spirit of the Lord? Look, the feet of those who have buried your husband are at the door, and they will carry you out.”

10 Then immediately she fell down at his feet and breathed her last. And the young men came in and found her dead, and carrying her out, buried her by her husband.

11 So great fear came upon all the church and upon all who heard these things.

Great Blessing

The apostles testified powerfully to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus, and God’s great blessing was upon them all.  Acts 4:33

I have a blessed life! I see it every day, not always in the material things, but in the peace that surrounds my everyday life. Not everyone may notice it, but I know it’s there. According to Proverbs 10:22, “The blessing of the Lord makes one rich, and He adds no sorrow with it.” This verse reminds me that God’s blessing isn’t about worldly wealth. It’s about living a life rich in peace, purpose, and joy. It’s about seeing His hand in my relationships, in my work, and even in the quiet moments.

Acts 4:33 describes a beautiful season for the early church: a time of great power, bold testimony, and above all, great blessing. In the midst of persecution and fear, God’s blessing gave them strength and unity. Their courage didn’t come from comfortable circumstances but from their salvation that was rooted in the sacrifice of Jesus and a radical commitment to one another.

What stands out to me most is the way they cared for each other. Verses 34–35 show how no one among them was in need because they shared freely and generously. They lived with open hands and open hearts. This unity wasn’t accidental. It was a choice. They placed people above possessions and community above comfort.

As I think about this concept, I realize how easy it is to live a self-focused life. Always worrying about my own needs, schedules, and plans. But I’ve also seen firsthand the blessing that flows when I shift my focus. There was a time when I felt spiritually dry and emotionally drained. Nothing drastic had happened that caused me to feel that way,it was just the wear and tear of life. But when I began serving others more intentionally, praying for people instead of only about my problems, and checking in on those God placed around me, something shifted. God’s peace returned. His joy bubbled back up. I wasn’t striving anymore for temporal things, I was walking in His blessing.

Here are some ways you can begin walking in God’s blessing starting today:

• Pray each morning for God to show you one person you can encourage or help.
• Listen intentionally really hearing the needs of those around you.
• Give generously, not just financially, but with your time, attention, and care.
• Stay in the Word daily bring your heart into agreement with God’s Word and purpose.

The blessing of God isn’t reserved for a few or for the perfect—it’s available to every believer who lives with a surrendered heart and an outward focus. Just like the early church, when we commit to building up others and walking in unity, God’s great blessing rests on us in powerful ways.

So today I want to encourage you to lean in. Focus on others. Let go of the things that distract and embrace the peace and joy that come with living for something greater than yourself. The great blessing of God is waiting to flow through you and it adds no sorrow with it.

Today’s scripture reading: Acts 4:32-37

32 Now the multitude of those who believed were of one heart and one soul; neither did anyone say that any of the things he possessed was his own, but they had all things in common.

33 And with great power the apostles gave witness to the resurrection of the Lord Jesus. And great grace was upon them all.

34 Nor was there anyone among them who lacked; for all who were possessors of lands or houses sold them, and brought the proceeds of the things that were sold,

35 and laid them at the apostles’ feet; and they distributed to each as anyone had need.

36 And Joses, who was also named Barnabas by the apostles (which is translated Son of Encouragement), a Levite of the country of Cyprus,

37 having land, sold it, and brought the money and laid it at the apostles’ feet.

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Live fully today because you can

_{So, I concluded there is nothing better than to be happy and enjoy ourselves as long as we can. ~ Ecclesiastes 9:9}

 Today’s passage is a powerful reminder that life is both unpredictable and precious. It shows us that whether you are righteous or wicked, there is no way to avoid the realities of life and death. But instead of leading us to despair, Solomon encourages us to embrace life with joy, intention, and gratitude. It’s not about chasing perfection or waiting for the “right time.” It’s about showing up fully to the life you have been given, today.

I remember a time when I was constantly waiting for the “next season” to enjoy life. I thought, When I get that promotion… when the kids are older… when I finally figure everything out… Then I’ll be able to relax and truly enjoy life. But one day, after a sudden loss in our family, I realized that time isn’t something we can control or guarantee. That moment changed me. I started learning how to live each day with purpose by appreciating the small things, showing up for people I love, and stepping into the calling God has placed on my life right now, not later.

Here are some practical ways you can start living Ecclesiastes 9 today:

1. Celebrate the ordinary. Don’t wait for a special occasion to enjoy life. Light the candles, wear the nice outfit, cook the favorite meal and remember, today is a gift. (Ecclesiastes 9:7)
2. Pursue your purpose with passion. Verse 10 says, “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might.” Whatever season you’re in, do it well. Whether you’re raising kids, building a business, serving in ministry, or working a job that feels small.
3. Let go of what you can’t control. Life doesn’t always go to the fastest, strongest, or smartest (v.11). Sometimes the best gift you can give yourself is to stop striving and start trusting. Rest in God’s loving care and live in His peace.

This text isn’t just about the brevity of life, but it is also about the beauty of it. It reminds us that though we don’t know what tomorrow holds, He does, and we are alive today, and that alone is a reason to rejoice and make it count for eternity.

So today I want to encourage you not to wait for perfect conditions. Don’t hold off joy until everything is figured out. You are here. You are breathing. You are able. And that means there’s purpose for you in this very moment. Live it well. Love deeply. Work passionately. Rejoice daily. Because at the end of it all, the goal isn’t to have it all figured out, it’s to have lived fully, faithfully, and with joy, because what you do today can count for all eternity.

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Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 9:1-12

1 For I considered all this in my heart, so that I could declare it all: that the righteous and the wise and their works are in the hand of God. People know neither love nor hatred by anything they see before them.

2 All things come alike to all: One event happens to the righteous and the wicked; To the good, the clean, and the unclean; To him who sacrifices and him who does not sacrifice. As is the good, so is the sinner; He who takes an oath as he who fears an oath.

3 This is an evil in all that is done under the sun: that one thing happens to all. Truly the hearts of the sons of men are full of evil; madness is in their hearts while they live, and after that they go to the dead.

4 But for him who is joined to all the living there is hope, for a living dog is better than a dead lion.

5 For the living know that they will die; But the dead know nothing, and they have no more reward, for the memory of them is forgotten.

6 Also their love, their hatred, and their envy have now perished; Nevermore will they have a share in anything done under the sun.

7 Go, eat your bread with joy, and drink your wine with a merry heart; For God has already accepted your works.

8 Let your garments always be white, and let your head lack no oil.

9 Live joyfully with the wife whom you love all the days of your vain life which He has given you under the sun, all your days of vanity; for that is your portion in life, and in the labor which you perform under the sun.

10 Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might; for there is no work or device or knowledge or wisdom in the grave where you are going.

11 I returned and saw under the sun that—the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, nor bread to the wise, nor riches to men of understanding, nor favor to men of skill; But time and chance happen to them all.

12 For man also does not know his time: Like fish taken in a cruel net, like birds caught in a snare, so the sons of men are snared in an evil time, when it falls suddenly upon them.

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💪 Experience His power in every area of life through what God has already promised in His Word.

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God’s plan is better

But even though a person sins a hundred times and still lives a long time, I know that those who fear God will be better off. ~ Ecclesiastes 8:12

Knowing that God is longsuffering and patient is one of the most comforting truths we can hold on to. No one can withhold judgment like He does and no one waits better than He does. I say this from personal experience. For years, I lived life my own way, determined to follow my desires and unwilling to listen to wise counsel. I ignored consequences and brushed off any warnings. Looking back, I see how foolish I was and how much heartache I brought on myself that could have been avoided.

That is why today’s verse hit me so deeply. I have experienced the sorrow that comes from chasing my own will, and I have encountered the goodness and mercy of a patient Father. God didn’t give up on me even when I was far from Him. And now, having walked in His blessing and purpose for years, I can say without hesitation: life lived in the fear of the Lord is far better than anything I could’ve made up on my own. When we try to make our own way in this world, we end up walking under the weight of confusion, frustration, and brokenness. The scriptures tell us that we live under a curse. However, when we surrender to God’s way, we step into the covering of His wisdom, peace, and grace.  That’s when we walk in His blessed path.

In today’s reading, Solomon acknowledged the confusing and seemingly unfair nature of life. Sometimes the wicked seem to prosper, and the righteous suffer. Even though we don’t always understand why (vv.14–17), he brings us back to a central truth: following God’s way is always the better choice. Living for God doesn’t guarantee an easy life, but it does promise a life of greater meaning, deeper joy, and eternal rewards.

Have you ever looked around and felt frustrated at the unfairness in the world? Maybe you’ve tried to live right, yet things seem harder for you than for those who live without ever considering there is a God. This passage reminds us not to measure life by immediate results but by eternal truth. What looks like success in the world’s eyes is often fleeting, but what’s done to honor God lasts forever.

Below are some ways that you can implement this truth in your life:

1. Choose daily surrender: Start your day by acknowledging God and committing your thoughts and plans to Him.
2. Resist comparison: When tempted to envy the path of the wicked, remind yourself that God’s justice is perfect and His timing is sure.
3. Enjoy life with gratitude: Solomon encourages us to enjoy the simple gifts such as food, fellowship, and the work we’ve been givenbas blessings from God (v.15).
4. Trust even when you don’t understand: Accept that not everything will make sense now, but God is always working behind the scenes (v.17).

Take 5 minutes today to reflect on your journey with God. Write down the areas where you’ve seen His mercy and the places where you’ve experienced blessing as you’ve walked in obedience. Then, pray and ask Him to help you continue to live in holy fear of Him, trusting that no matter what you see around you, those who fear God will be better off.

Today I want to encourage you that even though you may not have all the answers, and life may not always feel fair, there is something you can count on and that is that God is just, patient, and always good. His way may not always seem like the easiest, but it is always the best. When you fear the Lord and walk with Him, you will see that what He builds in your life is stronger, deeper, and more satisfying than anything you could have built on your own. No matter how long others seem to get away with evil, remember this: those who fear God will live a fuller, blessed life, always.

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 8:10-17

10 Then I saw the wicked buried, who had come and gone from the place of holiness, and they were forgotten in the city where they had so done. This also is vanity.

11 Because the sentence against an evil work is not executed speedily, therefore the heart of the sons of men is fully set in them to do evil.

12 Though a sinner does evil a hundred times, and his days are prolonged, yet I surely know that it will be well with those who fear God, who fear before Him.

13 But it will not be well with the wicked; nor will he prolong his days, which are as a shadow, because he does not fear before God.

14 There is a vanity which occurs on earth, that there are just men to whom it happens according to the work of the wicked; again, there are wicked men to whom it happens according to the work of the righteous. I said that this also is vanity.

15 So I commended enjoyment, because a man has nothing better under the sun than to eat, drink, and be merry; for this will remain with him in his labor all the days of his life which God gives him under the sun.

16 When I applied my heart to know wisdom and to see the business that is done on earth, even though one sees no sleep day or night,

17 then I saw all the work of God, that a man cannot find out the work that is done under the sun. For though a man labors to discover it, yet he will not find it; moreover, though a wise man attempts to know it, he will not be able to find it.

No questions

I say, “Keep the king’s commandment for the sake of your oath to God. ~ Ecclesiastes 8:2

At the beginning of this year, there was a change in the leadership of our country. Leadership shifts are a regular part of life and every few years, we see a new face in the highest office of the land. This time felt unique because the president who stepped in had already served before. In some ways, we knew what to expect, but even so, opinions were divided. Some celebrated the change while others not so much. The fact is that every leader brings change, and how we respond says a lot about our trust, not just in people, but mostly in God.

In Ecclesiastes 8, Solomon gives a powerful instruction: Obey the king, not for the king’s sake, but for the sake of your oath to God. In other words, honor leadership because of your higher allegiance to God, not because you agree with every decision that is made.

This is a difficult truth in a time where questioning authority is almost second nature. Yet the wisdom of God says: “Don’t be quick to walk away… don’t put yourself in agreement with rebellion… and remember, the king has power you may not understand” (vv. 3–4). These verses aren’t about blind obedience but about honoring God’s order and trusting His timing, especially in times when circumstances feel unjust or confusing.

This was the reality during Jesus’ earthly ministry. The people of Israel lived under Roman occupation, a government that was pagan, harsh, and foreign. Yet, Jesus didn’t lead an uprising or teach rebellion. Instead, He told His followers to give Caesar what belonged to Caesar and to live peacefully and honorably as citizens of heaven first.

This is not to say we accept injustice or ignore wrongdoing. There’s a time for godly resistance, but wisdom teaches us to be slow to react, careful with our words, and discerning about the timing and the way we respond (v.5–6). God is a God of order, and His wisdom teaches us to trust Him through the systems of this world, even the imperfect ones.

I remember a season when I deeply disagreed with a decision made by a leader I was under. Everything in me wanted to speak up, argue, or even walk away. But during that time, I sensed the Lord putting on my heart to stay, serve, and pray. It wasn’t easy. I had many internal conversations with God asking why and how long. But as I leaned into wisdom instead of reaction, I saw God work things out in ways I never could have through rebellion. That experience taught me that God honors those who trust His authority above man’s, and He fights for those who walk in humility and peace. 

Trusting God doesn’t mean fighting against authority until it gives in to pressure. Trusting God means pressing into Him and waiting for His timing, all the while believing that as we live peaceably with all people, He is at work behind the scenes. Doing things God’s way and placing our trust in Him opens the door for Him to bring about the best possible outcome, which is something we never could orchestrate on our own.

Below are the steps we should be doing to support out leaders and give God the entrance to bring about His good plan and purpose in this time and season of government rule:

1. Honor leadership, even when it’s difficult
   Not because you approve of every choice, but because you honor God above all. Speak with respect, even in disagreement.
2. Practice wisdom over reaction
   Verse 5 says, “A wise man’s heart discerns both time and judgment.” Before you speak or act, pause and pray. Is this the right time? Is this the right way?
3. Trust God with what you cannot control
   Verse 7 reminds us, “No one knows what will happen.” Don’t live in fear of the unknown. God already knows the outcome, and He holds your future securely.
4. Avoid agreeing with evil out of frustration
   Verse 3 warns against standing for an “evil thing.” Don’t let bitterness or discouragement push you into rebellion or gossip. Stay anchored in truth and peace.

You can get started on these steps today.  If it seems like you don’t want to or that it will be very difficult to change your perspective, consider starting here:

• Start with prayer. Ask the Holy Spirit for a heart that honors leadership and discerns wisely and give God full access to your heart to do His good works.
• Read Romans 13:1–7 alongside Ecclesiastes 8 and reflect on God’s perspective of authority.
• Choose silence over criticism for one week when it comes to leadership, whether in government, your workplace, or your church. Focus instead on speaking words of blessing.
• Ask God to search your heart. Are there areas where rebellion, frustration, or impatience have taken root? Surrender those to Him.

Today I want to encourage you to remember in a world full of opinions, debates, and discontent, Ecclesiastes 8:4 says, “Where the word of a king is, there is power; and who may say to him, ‘What are you doing?’” This isn’t a call to silence, but a call to trust that God’s hand is over every ruler and every season. You don’t have to have all the answers. You don’t have to fight every battle. Sometimes, the wisest and most powerful thing you can do is to submit to God, walk in wisdom, and trust Him with what you don’t understand.

Let today be the day you choose to release control, honor authority, and walk in peace with no questions asked. Just do it because you decide to do things God’s way and when God sees your willing heart of obedience, and He will honor it in due time.

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 8:1-9

1 Who is like a wise man? And who knows the interpretation of a thing? A man’s wisdom makes his face shine, and the sternness of his face is changed.

2 I say, “Keep the king’s commandment for the sake of your oath to God.

3 Do not be hasty to go from his presence. Do not take your stand for an evil thing, for he does whatever pleases him.”

4 Where the word of a king is, there is power; And who may say to him, “What are you doing?”

5 He who keeps his command will experience nothing harmful; And a wise man’s heart discerns both time and judgment,

6 Because for every matter there is a time and judgment, though the misery of man increases greatly.

7 For he does not know what will happen; So who can tell him when it will occur?

8 No one has power over the spirit to retain the spirit, and no one has power in the day of death. There is no release from that war, and wickedness will not deliver those who are given to it.

9 All this I have seen, and applied my heart to every work that is done under the sun: There is a time in which one man rules over another to his own hurt.

Don’t take it to heart, take it to Him

_{Also do not take to heart everything people say, lest you hear your servant cursing you. For many times, also, your own heart has known that even you have cursed others. ~ Ecclesiastes 7:21-22}

Have you ever had someone repeat something negative that was said about you? Maybe it was a friend, a family member, or even a co-worker who passed along a hurtful comment, whether out of concern or to influence your decisions. It doesn’t matter what the motive was, hearing that someone has spoken ill of you can wound your heart and shake your confidence, especially when you’ve been trying to do the right things and have a heart to serve others well.

In today’s reading, Solomon reminds us of something we often forget: people talk, and not everything they say is the truth or even how they really feel. Sometimes, people speak from frustration, emotion, or misunderstanding. And if we’re honest, we’ve done the same. We’ve all had moments where we’ve said things we regretted, maybe even about someone we care deeply about. That’s why Solomon says, don’t take everything to heart. It’s wise counsel for protecting your peace.

But what if the roles are reversed? Have you ever been the one who said something careless or unkind, only to find out it made its way back to the person it was about? That uncomfortable moment can bring a wave of regret. This passage reminds us that with humility, not just to extend grace when we’re hurt, but also to recognize when we’ve hurt someone else. Solomon says, “your own heart has known that even you have cursed others” (v. 22). He’s pointing us to a bigger truth: none of us are exempt from needing grace. We’re all learning, growing, and sometimes stumbling in our words. When we recognize our own shortcomings, it softens our heart toward others and teaches us to use our words more wisely.

This portion of Ecclesiastes is full of wisdom that grounds us in humility and balance. Solomon knows that life isn’t always fair and sometimes the righteous suffer while the wicked seem to flourish. He warns against extremes: don’t be overly righteous (self-righteous) or overly wicked (foolish). Instead, walk in the fear of the Lord and seek wisdom, because wisdom strengthens us like nothing else can (v. 18–19).

Solomon goes on to confess how elusive true understanding is. He searched for meaning, sought wisdom, and still realized that some things are too deep to grasp. Humans are flawed and we were created upright, but we’ve gone after countless distractions, deceptions, and schemes (v. 29). It’s a sobering truth, but it helps us understand why people (ourselves included) often fall short.

Here are some points to keep in mind as you navigate these uncertain times:

1. Let Go of Offense
   When you hear something hurtful, take a breath before you react. Ask God for wisdom and discernment. Sometimes it’s not even worth a response. Protect your heart by filtering what you allow to sink in. “Do not take to heart everything people say…” (v. 21)
2. Own Your Words
   If something you said hurt someone else, be quick to apologize. Be humble enough to acknowledge your missteps. Let that experience shape how you speak going forward.
   “For many times, your own heart has known that even you have cursed others.” (v. 22)
3. Pursue Wisdom with Humility
   Don’t chase perfection or try to understand everything. Some things will remain a mystery. Instead, commit to walking in God’s wisdom day by day, trusting Him with what you can’t control or explain.
   “Wisdom strengthens the wise…” (v. 19)

You don’t have to be trapped by past words, spoken by you or about you. Today can be a turning point. God’s mercy is new every morning, and His Spirit is ready to help you walk in wisdom and speak with grace. Your words can bring healing, encouragement, and hope to a world desperate for truth and kindness. Let today be the day you shift. Ask the Holy Spirit to do a good work in your heart and your mouth. Don’t take it to heart, take it to Him and follow the steps below:

• Start your day with prayer, asking God to help you filter your thoughts and protect your heart from unnecessary offense.
• Spend time in Proverbs or Ecclesiastes—books that are rich with wisdom for daily living.
• Memorize Ecclesiastes 7:21–22 as a reminder to release offense and walk in grace toward others and yourself.
• Practice kindness and self-awareness in your speech, even when you’re tempted to vent. Be someone others can trust with their name when they’re not around.

Today I want to encourage you to remember that life is full of people who will speak carelessly, misunderstand your heart, or try to steer your choices with their words. But don’t let their voices define your peace. Don’t take it all to heart. If you’ve been the one whose words have hurt, don’t let shame weigh you down.  Instead, make it right, and grow from it. Solomon’s wisdom is both grounding and freeing: we’re all imperfect, all in need of grace, and all invited to walk in wisdom and humility.

So today, let go of what was said and what you may have said. Forgive, ask for forgiveness, and move forward. Guard your heart, watch your words, and let the wisdom of God lead you in peace. Don’t take it to heart, take it to Him.

Today’s scripture reading: Ecclesiastes 7:15-29

15 I have seen everything in my days of vanity: There is a just man who perishes in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man who prolongs life in his wickedness.

16 Do not be overly righteous, nor be overly wise: Why should you destroy yourself?

17 Do not be overly wicked, nor be foolish: Why should you die before your time?

18 It is good that you grasp this, and also not remove your hand from the other; For he who fears God will escape them all.

19 Wisdom strengthens the wise more than ten rulers of the city.

20 For there is not a just man on earth who does good and does not sin.

21 Also do not take to heart everything people say, lest you hear your servant cursing you.

22 For many times, also, your own heart has known that even you have cursed others.

23 All this I have proved by wisdom. I said, “I will be wise”; But it was far from me.

24 As for that which is far off and exceedingly deep, who can find it out?

25 I applied my heart to know, to search and seek out wisdom and the reason of things, to know the wickedness of folly, even of foolishness and madness.

26 And I find more bitter than death the woman whose heart is snares and nets, whose hands are fetters. He who pleases God shall escape from her, but the sinner shall be trapped by her.

27 Here is what I have found,” says the Preacher, “Adding one thing to the other to find out the reason,

28 Which my soul still seeks but I cannot find: One man among a thousand I have found, but a woman among all these I have not found.

29 Truly, this only I have found: That God made man upright, but they have sought out many schemes.”