Success 101
And He sat down, called the twelve, and said to them, “If anyone desires to be first, he shall be last of all and servant of all.” ~ Mark 9:35
Most people spend their lives trying to climb higher, get noticed, and become more successful. The world teaches us that greatness comes from being served, being recognized, and being admired. But Jesus completely turned that thinking upside down. What if true success isn’t found in how many people serve you, but in how willing you are to serve others?
That’s not usually the message we hear in today’s culture. We’re encouraged to promote ourselves, build our image, and prove our importance. Yet Jesus taught that the pathway to greatness looks completely different than the world’s version of success.
We all have dreams and aspirations. Maybe you once dreamed of being the greatest athlete, musician, business leader, writer, or entrepreneur. There’s nothing wrong with having goals, pursuing excellence, or wanting to grow. God created us with purpose, gifts, and the desire to accomplish meaningful things. But Jesus revealed a powerful truth that many people overlook. The greatest people in God’s Kingdom are the ones willing to humbly serve others.
In today’s scripture reading, Jesus gave one of those opposite Kingdom principles that challenges our flesh. He said that if you want to be first, you must become last and servant of all. Ouch. That’s not always easy to hear because pride naturally wants recognition. We tend to want people to notice what we’ve accomplished and admire what we’ve built. But Jesus said true greatness is found in humility, kindness, and serving others well.
The apostle Paul reinforced this same truth throughout his letters. In Philippians 2:3 he wrote, Let nothing be done through selfish ambition or conceit, but in lowliness of mind let each esteem others better than himself.This is one of God’s success principles, and it works every single time you apply it.
Our Heavenly Father wants us to care for people in a way that makes them feel valued, encouraged, and strengthened. In order to do that, the focus has to shift off ourselves and onto others.
Think about it. People usually don’t walk away encouraged because someone spent the entire conversation talking about themselves, their achievements, or their success. What truly impacts people is when you notice their strengths, encourage their gifts, and genuinely care about their well being.
The same is true in everyday life. Most people don’t feel deeply loved because others expect to be constantly served. Love is shown most powerfully through humility, thoughtfulness, and caring for the needs of others.
Jesus Himself modeled this perfectly. The King of Kings washed feet, served people, healed the broken, and made time for those others ignored. If Jesus lived that way, how much more should we?
Here are some practical ways we can begin applying this principle in our daily lives:
- Look for opportunities to encourage someone every day
A sincere compliment, a prayer, or a kind word can completely change someone’s day. - Serve without needing recognition
Do something helpful even if nobody notices or thanks you for it. God sees every act of humility. - Listen more than you speak
People feel valued when they know they are heard and cared about. - Celebrate other people’s successes
Instead of competing or comparing, choose to genuinely rejoice when others are blessed. - Ask God each morning who you can help
Simple prayers like this open your heart to opportunities you may have otherwise missed. - Start small
Serving others doesn’t always require something huge. Sometimes it’s holding the door, sending an encouraging text, helping a coworker, or praying for someone quietly.
Some of the most meaningful moments in life happened when I stop focusing on myself and started paying attention to the people God places in front of me. Often, the very encouragement I need shows up while I’m encouraging someone else. God has a way of pouring back into us when we choose to pour into others. The beautiful thing about serving is that it changes both the giver and the receiver. It softens our hearts, keeps pride from taking root, and reminds us that life is bigger than our own ambitions.
Today I want to encourage you to redefine what success looks like. Don’t chase greatness the way the world does. Choose humility, kindness and to serve the people God places in your path. The Kingdom of God works differently than the world system, and Jesus made it clear that true greatness belongs to those who are willing to put others before themselves. As you serve faithfully, encourage others, and walk in humility, you’ll discover that God’s definition of success leads to a life that is deeply fulfilling, impactful, and eternally valuable.
Today’s scripture reading: Mark 9:30-37
30 Then they departed from there and passed through Galilee, and He did not want anyone to know it.
31 For He taught His disciples and said to them, “The Son of Man is being betrayed into the hands of men, and they will kill Him. And after He is killed, He will rise the third day.”
32 But they did not understand this saying, and were afraid to ask Him.
33 Then He came to Capernaum. And when He was in the house He asked them, “What was it you disputed among yourselves on the road?”
34 But they kept silent, for on the road they had disputed among themselves who would be the greatest.
35 And He sat down, called the twelve, and said to them, “If anyone desires to be first, he shall be last of all and servant of all.”
36 Then He took a little child and set him in the midst of them. And when He had taken him in His arms, He said to them,
37 “Whoever receives one of these little children in My name receives Me; and whoever receives Me, receives not Me but Him who sent Me.”
Journal:
- In what areas of my life do I tend to seek recognition or validation from others?
- How can I intentionally serve someone this week without expecting anything in return?
- Who in my life needs encouragement right now?
- What practical step can I take today to put someone else’s needs before my own?
- How would my relationships change if I focused more on serving than being served?
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